my feelings have been hurt badly by my younger cousin
adoringburritos9
what did your younger cousin do ?
clarke34
actually i need to disclose the fact that he is only available for me when he wants wifi, or eating things from my house and i also have given favours to him not because i wanted something from him noo only because of kindness but now im realising hes selfish prick
adoringburritos9
i guess that's how most of the people are , i guess he might change or evolve once he grows up ..
clarke34
hes in 10th standard
adoringburritos9
i am sorry you have to go through that ...
adoringburritos9
a lot of people are like that during school days but once they start maturing they do realise that others matter too .
clarke34
no why r u sorry actually i need some harshness in myself to proctect myself
adoringburritos9
do talk to him if you want . he will surely understand your perspective
adoringburritos9
dont be hard on yourself. even i do that sometimes but still ....
clarke34
okay so how was your day
adoringburritos9
okiesh
adoringburritos9
are you feeling alright now ?
clarke34
1
trying to forget that
clarke34
bd way your name is cute
adoringburritos9
i know it's cute 🥰
adoringburritos9
anything else you want to talk about??
adoringburritos9
then you can ...
clarke34
yes i want to feel my self not controlled by others behaviour ho can i
clarke34
how
adoringburritos9
boundaries and self esteem, self respect, self love this helps in understanding our selves better
adoringburritos9
if you try to set boundaries with that person it helps alot
adoringburritos9
do practice self love it takes time to fully love yourself but you can do this..
adoringburritos9
try to value yourself
adoringburritos9
i hope you found your answers Clarke34 .
adoringburritos9
do not hesitate to ask more 😊
clarke34
yes i have more questions
clarke34
i feelinsecure when alone and think about a thought many many times until i get exhausted how to cope up with this
adoringburritos9
sure say
adoringburritos9
i m not quite sure if my answers would help you enough but hope so it does
adoringburritos9
what kind of thought?
adoringburritos9
you haven't been alone on your own ?
clarke34
like some insult or incident that happened to me by some person mainly bad ones
adoringburritos9
oh look people are shitty in so many different ways and it fucking sucks . i guess maybe try meditation or listen some music for Distraction