why do I always give the Batton to other people? I stand quietly. eg. the other day we went for shopping and at the billing counter when a friend of mine was bargaining I was just standing quietly there. In many situations I just try to familiarity with people like this person is like a father, brother to me. Even when it doesn’t make any sense. Am I trying to look for protection? or I have still not grown up yet that I keep looking for elder people to make decisions for me