so I've been dating this guy for 3 months now, totally adore him and he adores me too, when we first started ii told him about my depression and anxiety, he seemed like he understood. Currently I've been going through a 'depressive episode' and been really down, so ii told him that and tried to explain that it's not his fault and that me and him are good but we keep going back and forth about things, he says I've been giving him mixed signals and when we talk on the phone it's like ii don't wanna talk to him basically my mood is off, I've tried soany times to explain what I'm going through and now ii just feel like he doesn't get it. I don't know if ii should keep explain and reassuring him or if ii should end things cause honestly this is a lot for me to deal with on top of everything I'm currently dealing with. I don't wanna hurt him but ii also don't want my mental health to be an issue.

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excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Meet him and explain everything. His support will actually help you get through this. It may be difficult for him to process the sudden change since it's only been 3 months. Give it a chance. Talk to him and let him be there for you

NotSoSunnySunshine · Answer

thanks, I'll try just that.

elvisturning56 · Answer

do you trust him

NotSoSunnySunshine · Answer

yep without a doubt

elvisturning56 · Answer

when explaining be cautious please,coz its only three months you can start with small steps and share some of the things you feel less heavy,im not trying to judge but my friend used my insecurties whic i hadn't dealt with to control me but am not saying not to trust him,hope you get my piont

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?