I am emotionally depend on someone . now they are controlling me imaging if you don't have caring parents and that's why you find someone out of the family and emotionally depend on them. and then they are controlling you because they know your flaws your weak point. now leaving the person is very hard even don't have any support makes my life stressful and that's lead me depressed and anxious everyday. everytime I think what my life without that person even I can't meet him. this make me too much stress. I lost myself that I am also exist . I never laughed since last month I don't know how to overcome this situation.

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heisenburg666 · Answer

I also suffered from the same see let go off them if they're hurting you I'm free if you wanna chat with me

offendedpudding7 · Answer

That's what I am suffering from as well..... the problem is that we can't let go of them bcoz it's just too hard to imagine our life without them...... we are scared to be left alone and die in loneliness...... it's just too hard to won't have anyone who loves you and cares about you........ now as I am emotionally dependent it would be too difficult for me as nobody is there for me other than that person who cares at least a little bit for me though they are controlling me but leaving them just seems too difficult as I will be left alone after that.

awedbuck0 · Answer

yes true leaving  them is hard. and holding them is also painful. even they don't care about us if we left them. they are strong hearted people.i am not

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?