im felling disgusted by this kind of cheap thinking of peo0le
alertchile0
hii clarke how things are with you now, are you doing good?
clarke34
hii alertchile
clarke34
how r u
clarke34
🙁
alertchile0
I am fine. you?
clarke34
to be honest a bit down
clarke34
heyy do you smile freely
clarke34
i havent since many months☹️
alertchile0
why
clarke34
im facing difficulty remaining my cool and its like anybody says any thing to me and i feel like should i bother
clarke34
like if they are arguing with me unnecesarily or stating me wrong when actually im right and when they are angry with me i want to fight back but
alertchile0
we live with people. people will have opinion. they will have things to say. why not learn how to be OK despite all this?
clarke34
cant fight with a lady juat cant but she is aged so should i argue with her or not
clarke34
alertchile i want ask something from you
alertchile0
when will you feel at ease if you agree or if you don't?
alertchile0
argue
alertchile0
yes..
clarke34
heyy dear i dont argue with anyone i just want to ask do you feel uncomfortable when you are arguing with your family member
clarke34
i myself is a human with unpeotected barrier of emotions
alertchile0
oo ya, for me it's usually crying plus speaking things out at the same time
clarke34
please share i want to analyse myself
clarke34
so i could deal with it
clarke34
okay i understand i also feel overwhelmed
alertchile0
yes you can deal with it
clarke34
can i speak in hindi
clarke34
if u r ok
alertchile0
crying and feeling overwhelmed is just a process while speaking, it should not be taken as something is wrong with you
alertchile0
ha bolo
clarke34
kya aap kisi ke kahe gaye negative comment ko kitne time tak sochte ho
clarke34
do you repent yourself giving time by allowing yourself to other person or just stay happy ignoring that thing completely
alertchile0
it depends who that person is
clarke34
i think i have mentioned about it in this that what if she is your mother or grandmother
clarke34
coz its family concern
clarke34
heyy its ok if u r busy
alertchile0
most of the time when I find people saying things according to them how I am ...but then when I am actually not like that I just don't let it sink in me ....it's like it doesn't matter what was said
clarke34
anyone can help me in this situation
alertchile0
and if it's something that true ...I try to change
alertchile0
because why not, get better everyday however it is
clarke34
i said if you know they hate you but act sweet with you in a negative way
clarke34
u there
alertchile0
yes I am
alertchile0
notification problem I guess
alertchile0
if I know a person hates me ...I just try to remain away from them
alertchile0
and there are cases where people hate me , but it doesn't bother me so that how I act unbothered
alertchile0
hii if they are acting sweet despite hating you...you must be important for them in some way
clarke34
alerchile how was your day today
clarke34
are you happy today
alertchile0
yes it was good
clarke34
what colour is your favourite
alertchile0
not any particular
alertchile0
why?
clarke34
i think the clothing colour in which we feel confortable also tells about our mood isnt it
alertchile0
may be people say that but I haven't felt things like this in me
clarke34
what are your hobby you like when you feel happy
alertchile0
when I feel happy I listen to songs and sing with them or sometimes even make myself feel like I am having a concert😂😂
clarke34
😀😀
clarke34
i need to smile how can i
alertchile0
do you have a person with whom you feel so comfortable that you can just be yourself with them?
