If it's not okay for you, then it's not. Tell him about what you're feeling and if he still keeps on doing it then there's a problem. If that happens, learn to love yourself more.
zestyseafowl0
it is three years now and he is not stop last week he even sent her some money I really feel bad because I am feel running away and I have no one to go to pregnant
enviousmoth0
That's not good. Did you talk to him about it?
zestyseafowl0
thank you dear
enviousmoth0
You are welcome. Us women should support one another.
zestyseafowl0
yes I told him so many times even I spoke with his ex
zestyseafowl0
sometimes I feel lonely and sad I don't know what to because I don't have friends to talk to and I can't tell my family
enviousmoth0
And how did your husband and ex respond to you? Did they make you feel bad or something?
zestyseafowl0
there is nothing going on between them
enviousmoth0
That's what they told you? I just want to confirm if I'm understanding this right.
zestyseafowl0
and sometimes I use too my husband tell that he want her give him a baby girl because we have son is 2yrs now
zestyseafowl0
yes that what they told me
enviousmoth0
He told you that he wants to give his ex a baby girl or did you just hear him saying that? And again, you're pregnant right?
zestyseafowl0
it saw a text him texting her tell that he wants her to give him a baby girl
zestyseafowl0
yes am pregnant now 4 months
enviousmoth0
No way, sis. There really is something wrong going on. You shouldn't be here feeling lonely and sad. You deserve happiness for yourself and your kids. I don't know anything about marriage but I know he shouldn't make you feel that way and do those things behind your back. Now is there something that you would like to do?
zestyseafowl0
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am just wait for him to pay college fees when I finish school have a job I will not entertain him he will have to choose his family or his ex
enviousmoth0
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Yes! Be strong not only for your kids but also for yourself. Goodluck and never let anyone make you feel that way ever again. You are better than that. And yes, he should know his priorities and responsibilities as a father and as a husband.
zestyseafowl0
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thanks dear atlist I feel good
enviousmoth0
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No worries. Glad that I helped. I also hate seeing women being treated like this that's why I commented immediately. Never ever forget your worth.
