i cant get over my past.... everything is bringing back all the bad memories and making my life miserable...how to come out of it?

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deep_thinker · Answer

can you share those bad memories

starlord514 · Answer

i failed in a competitive exam twice...i lost my father....i lost both my physical and mental health....my friends bearly tollerate me....my biggest dream of becoming doctor collapsed.... everything feels like hell

skylar · Answer

u realize... u can give neet nxt yr by taking partial drop

starlord514 · Answer

yes...but we are financially somewhat unstable...and becoming a doctor can take 15 long years....there's no one to support my mom and sister

skylar · Answer

u can teach tutions... also mbbs students start getting stipend from 3rd yr in last two yrs., even when u'll be pursuing ur internships or pg - you'll be getting some stipends

deep_thinker · Answer

We can never control the course of life, everyone's life has a lot of sadness but I know your sadness is too big for you, worrying about past things will never move our life forward, we may not always be what we want to be, but if we persevere, we can definitely become something.

starlord514 · Answer

yes...but i have to leave my home town to join a mbbs college...which obviously i can't do...soo...

skylar · Answer

well... in that's case its  a completely diff issue... I can understand ur concern abt money ... even I've done some planning plottings if I go for meds.

skylar · Answer

also sometimes we need to leave something behind in order to move forward soo...choice is urs... do what u think u'll not regret in future

starlord514 · Answer

hmm....thanks for that @skylar

starlord514 · Answer

soo...are u a med student?

skylar · Answer

a neet aspirant! from pcmb background

starlord514 · Answer

hmm...all the best for your exam...pls don't end up like me

skylar · Answer

thanks! I'm most likely going to be on worse side... acc to current situation

starlord514 · Answer

@skylar...please don't let situations change you...thats the biggest mistake I've ever done

skylar · Answer

some things are meant to happen either way.... only I can try to improve - the only thing Ive got in my hands.

starlord514 · Answer

yeah .. that's very true...some things happen even when we pray...that they shouldn't happen... it's destiny...we cannot change it...but if you don't give a try to change it...we live in a guilt...always blaming the situations...at that stage...we may not be in a situatio to accept our destiny

skylar · Answer

best of luck

starlord514 · Answer

same to you...

deep_thinker · Answer

best of luck to you both!

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?