firstly, stop pretending u r an introvert. secondly, just believe in yourself.
skylar
@ruhi pretending.. how?
Moonmin05
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hey @awe it's ok u can tell me how u feel I'm also same as u ..u know
mahua5966
@ruhishah that doesn't make any sense u r not helping
skylar
I think @awe is off
Moonmin05
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being introvert is not pretending or a problem it's just someone's personality no one can say like it's pretending
mahua5966
it's true @moonmin05 i am introvert too I don't have friends cz of this I am terrible at interviews it's not like m pretending it it's my basic nature but now started helping myself by writing on paper I think @12345awe needs support from someone in real life for sometime to help him growing
lordshuk
Hi 12345 awe, just be calm.I think first you need to communicate with people whom you are very comfortable with..It can develop your conversation skills.Keep doing and after that you expand the area of making communication and conversations..If you feel too shy or awkward to talk directly with people you want to make connection with, you simple can drop text messages.
Moonmin05
yes ur right @mahua i am an ambivert i have very few friends i do have bestfriends with whom i can share anything bt stil I'm very close to everyone about my feelings i don't share too much with them i would love to hangout with them bt for sometimes i also need my own tym to be alone and don't talk to anyone... being introvert is not useless everything has its own merits just u need to learn ur values and start ignoring the ppls so called opinion
mahua5966
yes @moon he need to tell someone close family or maybe friends to help him to grow until he became confident enough to stand for himself
importedrhino2
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hey @12345awe the thing is , i totally understand how you feel , i am an introvert myself and honestly it is tiring being told you're not like others who typically think they are flawless , no they're not , nobody is okay? it is very useless to hate yourself for the people who will never be in your shoes , don't hate yourself for the People who don't know what its like to be you and its okay for them to not know take your time and slowly and gradually start interacting just when you feel comfortable enough don't do it ever for somebody else do it for YOU ! hope this helped . sending love <3