well I am not that good at studies unlike her and I hate maths she wants me to be like her
first thing don't think too much on your mom's behavior towards you for your studies.. parents always think good for their child and they are concerned for your studies. you know there are a lot of people including me who's parents aren't enough literate to guide children's in studies or in careers. I am a working professional but still I wished that if someone was there in my Early age to guide me Or showed me a way than I'll be somewhere else rather than doing the job I really don't like. you are blessed to have parents like them so please don't take your behavior in negative way.. stil if you are facing difficulties in studies, go talk to her freely. you know you will never find any solution out there and no one will suggest you better than your parents. go tell her and talk to her with calmness.. I don't know you are in school or college but I am sure she will understand and give you a solution for this.. always remember what you have right now is a wish for someone else.. be grateful dear.. god bless you
if I start talking to her she starts complaining about my marks and tells me to go study
I know they care about me and just want me succeed but all the hope of them thinking I will like them is just not so good
can I ask you about your age and in which standard You study in school
in 9th currently
I have not so good communication with her we only talk about school or marks I am kinda introverted
See, u need to tell her or make her understand the pressure u are facing .. u must directly talk about ur mental health n how it makes u feel low .. say her u feel good when u are loved .. say u understand her concern but also don't I have the right to be loved too .. will such pressure and tension help to achieve good marks or make u feel low ..
oh dear! don't put stress on your mind from now, you have a long life ahead..you are too young to think like this. just focus on enjoying and studying in your teenage life. you don't need to do anything else.. these are the Golden days of your life. and for maths, I also hated maths alot like everyone else do but when I gave me a chance to go deeper into it, I started liking it. you know maths is the only subject which will help in most of life aspects and you will get to know about this in future.. maths needs nothing but practice and once you become a champ in maths everyone in your class will find you more intelligent than others. you are awsome and I believe you will concentrate and try giving a chance to yourself like me and you will find it a likable subject.. god bless you
thank u I will try
Yeah .. see u have to .. directly u need to first say .. do u have time for me .. I mean just me .. I want to share my problems .. u are my mom so I obviously came to you .. can u please give me time to tell what I feel n what is going through my mind .. ask this way .. I wish to tell you something ..
I find talking to her more difficult than writing an exam
ask her simply do u want ur daughter to fear u or love you?
not rudely .. but yeah be confident
I am sure I will get slapped if I say that
Ask her calmly then .. say at first itself .. I wish to ask you one thing would u scold or hit me? Just be calm n say .. Mom I wish to love u not fear u .. I want to be loved .. n the rest I wrote in comments
See some times a little courage can change things
yeah I will try talking to her hope some words come out