trust ur instincts

but some part of me is scared of losing him.. losing my lovee

most boys get excited when they talk intimate. it's natural

look sometimes things happen and we don't like it but what i wud suggest is uk the situation very well and yes it's scaring but u don't want live in false dream either

but how can I just leave things doesn't it feel like me ghosting him

then communicate with him be honest say him these things u feel and say him to be honest with u even if it's going to hurt you or not because you want to know the real truth

the way i see it u can either have a whole conversation with him and if u still don't find the answer and u still have same feeling after constantly talking to him about this then your option might be the best so that u don't get hurt

try to explain how it started and how it's going and what makes you feel that then it will be more easy to say something

honest conversation between two would help....the elephant in the room needs to be addressed

I've told him some time that thing between us won't work out... (for that real reason) but he just said he'll always be the same to me no matter what

y do u feel so ? have u told

those are my gut feelings actually

go within and ask ur heart is it ur fear or is it ur intuition

the real thing is we are cousins... it's illegal for us to ever get married n be together both of us know it now.. we were normal cousin in the beginning but later on he got to know I loved him... then he said he loved me too he asked me out a few times he tried to get physical.... so we'd meet atleast once a month.... there was nothing we spoke about he use to just take me to a ride at night to places where no one was there try to get physical n drop me back home... once he asked me for sex I said no because I wasn't ready for it... he took it fine but after that he never asked me out... he didn't text me much I asked him why he just said he was busy (but he had time to go out with other girl n put snap mentioning DATE) after me asking him y he just said he was busy n stopped talking to me for so many months after that I too let him be I didn't text him.. then all of a sudden after soo many months he started texting me, he was trying to get back like before... saying he misses me... he wants to get physical with me.. n all those stuffs... it kinda makes me feel bad... is it just my body?? (here getting physically means kissing, hugging.. n a bit more)

stop this if it's not permitted in family..otherwise u both may end up each other real bad in future.

doesn't seem like a very healthy relationship

*hurting

yep i wud advice the same as @noonedoc might be good to put a break to this

but howw😭😭😭 I've loved him for so many years noww it's hard to let go... I still believe he's good n he likes me.. but he's sexual feeling for me dominates...

u can love someone still live ur life by wishing eachother well even when cannot be together ....

sometimes things take a very bad turn and break u in billion different ways and the pain u go through cant be felt but at the end of the day the one thing u can say to urself is that it was for your own good and his it might have not worked out in future but realised it changed things for a better future for you and that it's okay it will be alright

you realised it*

to be honest my friend ...go home take a vacay see a counsellor and move on the path may not end well ...

so can sld I just start ghosting him🥺

might be a good option yes

dnt ghost him give him the reason and say ur goodbyes till u can both transmute the emotion into a healthy cousin relationship

how do I even start a conversation like that he has no problem with our current relationship..

coz someone needs to talk and stand for right things which will be good for both

just create the seperation the way u can .....

but I don't understand how to make him understand this... to someone who sees no problem at all

u see the problem so u have a free will to act ...it's ur life so u have equal say for ur say in life

if he doesn't understand cutoff him at once if necessary use help of a close friend

sure thanks a look @nonedoc ❤️🥺

appreciated

heyy, anyone here??

yes

I've still not figured out how do i tell him about this... really need help with it

face ur fears to be free of this anxeity

hey noonedoc... i just tried to say something to him idk if it was right... so this is how it went.... (him-I'm waiting to spend a day with you👻) (me- aww I'm waiting to spend my whole life with you.. what to do..) (him-🙈💗) -end-

is this his first rodeo

he is being cautious

coz he is unsure about whole life and can't say blunt no

ikr... i feels alone in this (whtever relationship) it is it feels like I'm alone attached to him at emotional levels.

find someone else if u feel unworthy simple h dunia bahut badi h

wht do i doo abt him now??

ku apne Zindagi k watt lagane pe lage ho dono ...ghar mai allowed h kya fir pura dramaa ho jayga baat badh v gyi toh

pencil plan ka matlab?

wrong. msg

pata hai abhi mein usse dor rehena chahatihu... par pata nahi kaise...

bolo dur rehna h khatam number delete maaro block

or else use a friend

to convey