because my childhood friends left me and am not able to come out
skylar
not able to come out of what?
amms
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not able to come out of the feeling that I will not meet them in life again and will not be able to make new friends
skylar
what terms did they leave? did it end at good note?
amms
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they just blocked me suddenly without even telling me a reason tk do so! i tried in all possible social media apps to try talk to them...then too they blocked me everywhere
skylar
just out of blue? all of them?
girl3098
Trust me amms you will. you'll make new friends. if not close like your childhood buds, still you'll have new people in your life. it feels like time is taking forever to pass, I understand but one day, you'll look back and see it all passed.
amms
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i mean 2 people and yeah just suddenly....i asked a person in common the reason and then she also isnt able to tell the reason
amms
@girl3098 thankyou soo much...it means alot...btw where you from?
skylar
did u try to contact them in person?
amms
the person in common suggested me not to contact kn oerson6
amms
person*
skylar
so u didn't try then?
amms
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no! like i felt they'll find it creepy and they'll feel like i am following them
amms
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because i cldnt come out of it, i am stalking them from the common person 's instagr account
skylar
but why they will feel like that, aren't u their childhood frnd?
amms
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i am, at the same time as i am their childhood friend what i felt was atleast they had to consider to tell a reason and do what they did
girl3098
Skylar, I know clarification is important but it's not fair right to leave suddenly out of blue without any reason? what's the reason of meeting them in person?
amms
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yeah i also want to meet them in person....as i thought to meet them in person one of the friend who blocked me lost her mother due to covid and i felt that this is not the time to meet her right away
skylar
@girl - see, there are endless probabilities for why they mightve blocked him., and when someone does starts ghosting out of blue... we start overthinking... about these endless probabilities...sometimes it's better to take a step towards closure, instead of being anxious about something which may not be worth it.
skylar
I think u should try to reach at least one of them.... if u still don't get enough closure... know that it was a good riddance they left u.
amms
i am not able to come out of it only because of the endless time i have spent with them and the bond i shared with them
skylar
u r facing nostalgia... how do u think u'll be able to let go of this feeling?
amms
no idea 😔
girl3098
@sky maybe you can help me with a problem of mine I faced today. What to do when you know the reason, not logical but the other person tells you a reason and is hell bound to leave. But you are not ready for him to just leave yet because it's not fair right to just leave someone because one person decided that.
skylar
think about it take ur time, how do u feel when u remember them and their memories?
amms
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i feel like i want the time to go back
skylar
u know that that's not possible right?
amms
yeah i know
girl3098
sorry amms, I shared my thing here. But I want you to know that I can relate to you on some level.
amms
yeah @girl3098 i have no problem if u share your problem here i also can relate and help you
skylar
so how do u feel knowing this - that things can't go back as they were?
amms
i feel like..if time goes back maybe i can change things which led me to loose my friends
skylar
it's kind of living in past... u r reminiscing those memories... read my prev ques again and ponder on it , then tell me yeah?
amms
yeah sure skylar ❤️
skylar
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