we were in same class 12 we had same subject so started talking n all then after talking few months I fell in love n dared to propose him
he said yes
we started dating, going on bike rides dates but with this we started fighting
for every idiotic thing we used to fight and there are some toxic things too like why you did that why you didn't why didn't tell me and much more
fighting screaming crying everyday I asked him for break up for several times he is gentle man and loves me but at the same time I feel trapped
were you friends with him before by any chance ?
he always remind me that he puts effort things he do for me n like I m doing nothing in the relationship but to tell you my father is in Army and my mom is so strict but I went out of league to love him
yes I was his friend
are you girl?
I think it's time you notice the red flags and address him the issues
I having broads exam from 13 may but because of him I can't focus and I have traumatized past or childhood I have shared him everything but I don't know why he does things like that
see if you are planning to date someone , and if you are serious about it ,there will be alot of hurdles and difficulties you both will face..and by listening to your story , ig he is possessive and even he must have been gone through some trauma which makes him possessive. you gotta tell him everything like if you really gonna do something big and running and breaking up from problems is not the solutions , if you really love him ,show some maturity , understand him and communicate
honey you have to stop talking to him until your exams are over...he'll manipulate you .. convince you to stay...but all you have to rely is his actions rather than words
I see , you have boards now ...so it must be really difficult for you , focus on your studies rn , ask him for break..and not a breakup keep your relationship aside for a while now. because this can be solved later. boards aren't gonna come to you again
so last thing I have two most I could peoples in my life him and my girl best friend she tried her best to keep us together even I don't want to be with him and I m feeling suffocation between both of them so I asked him for breakup he said he will improve but I wanted breakup so badly my peace of mind is gone i m being too aggressive can't concentrate I mean 1000s of problems but after my best suggestion I gave him time for like 6 months or year to improve but the thing happened is I accepted req of two guys on snapchat one my ex and other my old Facebook friend but I was knowing his reaction so i lied that they were from Starting in my snap but he knows these things about snap by ??? any guesses
he opened my I'd in his phn I few months back he did same thing with my insta and removed some of my followers and saying proudly that he did that
he clearly doesn't trusts you...and it's your fault too , you added your ex to your snapchat and on top of that you lied, think from his POV too how would you felt if he added his ex to his snapchat and lied to you
we can see when we added friends in snapchat , we just need to open the friends profile and slide a lil down there you can see when you were friends with them.
an overall solution please
I m not happy just because of him I m in this relationship n I have told him this several times
if you're not happy with him even giving your best , if you feel trapped, LEAVE. it's not worth it.
leave sis. focus on yourself ...for you
thank you so much for listening and giving solution