I fell for someone few months back. We started talking to each other, we instantly connected and ...
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I fell for someone few months back. We started talking to each other, we instantly connected and became quite close but after 2-3 months, things went haphazard. I don't know when it started really. His father passed away last year and the because of the trauma, he was not ready for this relationship, so we decided to go slow but when second time, we had a fight, he was ready to leave. i somehow convinced him to stay and we decided to step back and not give it a tag and stay normal but recently one night, I was sleepy and I said I love you and he did not, I felt bad. The next day, I might have reacted a little on a situation because of my own expectations. Now, it's been 6 days, he is not talking to me properly, it's very formal. I tried calling too but he said he was busy with work. All of this is causing me anxiety and my overthinking is not helping. Everytime I try to communicate with him, I feel that it might be a trigger and he'll leave. The anxiety is killing me. Idk what to do.

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