hi I'm fine you... i just wanted ask you did you ever feel worried about your social connection...
uralienfriend
sometimes
uralienfriend
what do u feel low around them or a sense of mis trust?
rex
i feel lot.. it's questions our entire personality
uralienfriend
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it does mostly bcoz of the way they make u feel
rex
talking with people is alway been problem to me
uralienfriend
1
why do u feel they will judge u?
rex
i can't chit chat like others.. i can only speak about something serious..it makes me isolate from them
uralienfriend
1
it happens with me to i mostly talk about things that matter
uralienfriend
am not really into their gossips
uralienfriend
1
thats the way u lose friends but that's okay
uralienfriend
1
u gotta build ur self strong and find like minded people
rex
to me it's not like I'm not interested. I'm interested but I'm just listen can't contribute
uralienfriend
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it's like ur in place where u don't fit n and ur judging urself it's like that's place where fish is trying to climb a tree that's not where u fit in right
uralienfriend
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as i said then maybe it's not the palce for u how about find some one like minded to u
rex
yeah i hesitate lot and overthinking and all rotting me
uralienfriend
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look u build ur personality in such a way that when u speak eveyone listen u need to have that much confidence in u
rex
yeah bro.. how do i do that any advice
uralienfriend
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it's like the world will turn against u but it's upto u if u wanna turn around and be there leader or walk away matter of perspective
uralienfriend
1
honestly i lost many frnds too and am grateful bcoz they don't fit in my life nor i want to fit in their i wud rather find ppl who understand me untill u find them be self-sufficient this will only make u stronger
