I am currently dealling with a broken relationship .I am deeply in love ,he is seeing someone else and i feel guilt cause i have being hurting him for couple years .We have being together for 13 years ,i asked for a last chance ,he denied .One thing that make me upset after 3 months of separation ,he used me ,we are leaving together and have 2 kids.I can't resist seeing him in front of me and knowing ,and knowing he does not want me anymore. I am crying all day and cannot eat,losing hair .I don' t lnow what to do .

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I am currently dealling with a broken relationship .I am deeply in love ,he is seeing someone else and i feel guilt cause i have being hurting him for couple years .We have being together for 13 years ,i asked for a last chance ,he denied .One thing that make me upset after 3 months of separation ,he used me ,we are leaving together and have 2 kids.I can't resist seeing him in front of me and knowing ,and knowing he does not want me anymore. I am crying all day and  cannot eat,losing hair .I don' t lnow what to do .

adna · Answer

Hi! I'm very sorry to see you feeling this way. But, you have to know that no matter what, someone is dealing the same thing like you. I think you should try to accept it. You need to move on, there's so much people who want to get to know you. You have to remember your happy memories and move on. You can't stay stuck to a person that has already moved on and is in another relationship.  You shouldn't waste your time on someone who manipulated,  controlled and used someone like you.  Be happy with the memories you have with him  and seek a different relationship or a break from the dating scene to take care of yourself. I'm absolutely proud of you for dealing with these kind of things, yet you're still standing! Take this as a life lesson and try to do better, to know better. Best of luck <3

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