actually in my office people are very toxic like very much
honeynadiya
why so?
honeynadiya
which kinda problems u r facing?
guiltystork0
actually firstly I'm going there since 7 months ok
guiltystork0
now they have hired two more girls
guiltystork0
so before hiring them my manager was like I'm going to promoted and all and now when they have new staff they gave those positions to them and I'm still doing that same work
guiltystork0
just tell me it's it unfair to me?
honeynadiya
no it's not fair actually...it hurts a lot I understand
guiltystork0
that's what I'm saying first they said I'm going to pramoted and now they do this to me
guiltystork0
so i said this to one of my colleague so he said that this is sir's order what can he do and some days back he was saying he'll trained me and Everything
guiltystork0
and now so that there is now girl staff is there 2 colleagues of mine is behaving with me like I'm bad for them or don't talk to me much and behave like strangers and this are those persons who are very nice to me before this girls come isn't it bad to me
guiltystork0
hey you there?
honeynadiya
yeah sorry m in half awake ... sorry
guiltystork0
ok
honeynadiya
communication is the key...talk with them and try to make them understand that ...it's not your fault...and its a misunderstanding about you and nthg else
guiltystork0
and now i feel like those people think bad about me
honeynadiya
if they still behave like this thn u cnt do anything no... just find a good frd over there...he / she might understand you...
guiltystork0
you know because of one person the environment of my office is so toxic
honeynadiya
you know let me tell you a short Story...m a medical student.. I lived in hostel for 8 months and there were some of my roommates ..I don't even know what was going between them they were quarreling and at the end they blamed me that she is the one root of our quarreling...I didn't even know the matter and they spread this rumour that she is the one who is not good ..her nature is not good ..stay away from her ..she quarrel alot and this and that ... for few days it affected me but at the end I thought its not my fault and I am not guilty...god is everywhere and he is watching everything... I don't have to spend my whole life with them...let them do whatever they want to even they were saying that my character is so bad ..my mom dad and my closed ones know how I am it's enough for me.even one good frd is enough In this situation
honeynadiya
time will change everything... and if u are still worried thn go and directly talk with them ..ask in clear words ...wht happened to u...why are you behaving like this... is there any prob with me?? I m feeling good bcoz of all these...plz let me know if any prob is there coz of me cox I don't want misunderstanding,
guiltystork0
she sits right next to me so she wants to drink tea so she asked me and this new girl that does we know how to make tea so that girl said no and i said yes because I know how to make tea so then she said to make a tea to me ok so i asked her like everyday then she yeah everyday so i said that everything is written to done by me like you know in our gujrati language " badhu mane lakhiya pyu che" so she was like what means by everything i do and she says in a fighting tone
honeynadiya
aa atlo bhaav aapo chho ne atle j evu thay che... em kevu joitutu k haju pan nathi aavdti to hu directions batavu m banavo ...huj banay aapis to tme su krso
honeynadiya
jetli importance aapo chho ne atli deserve nthi krta a loko atli importantace potaane aapo.. potana Sarapana no faydo na uthaava desho koine
guiltystork0
ohhh you also a gujrati 😁
guiltystork0
yeah ane aene pan married woman key che bolo
guiltystork0
ae mane taunts marte te to pachii hu aevuj kav ne ke badhu mane lakhiya pyu che