heyy. try socializing with people and making new friends. one day you will fi f the people that are meant to be in your life. if you need anything im there for you
loukeoc
how was your day
needyjaguar2
i am not a person who is able to socialize
needyjaguar2
my day was fine till noon... but after that I cried until I became empty
loukeoc
oh i understand. its okay. take step by step. i used to be an introvert shy person that couldnt socialize with anyone but step by step it will get easier
loukeoc
what happened after noon?
needyjaguar2
i don't want to discuss it publicly.. but is there any chat option here
loukeoc
i dont think there is a chat option here.
loukeoc
if you have an app we can talk about it in
needyjaguar2
this is my first time on this app
loukeoc
im new too
loukeoc
do you have any social app like Instagram or something like that?
loukeoc
if you dont want to share it its okay. just know that everything will get better. take step by step by talking to people. it may be hard at first but time by time it will get easier
needyjaguar2
actually one of my family members was too rude to me
loukeoc
1
im sorry to hear that. maybe they didnt mean it? did you talk to them after that?
needyjaguar2
but I feel hurt
loukeoc
1
i understand. try talking to them? maybe they didnt mean to be rude. maybe they were angry or in a bad mood. try understanding what happened
needyjaguar2
he just said sorry
loukeoc
1
was the sorry from his heart?
needyjaguar2
but.. the damage is already done
loukeoc
talk to them about it. tell them you're hurt
loukeoc
1
do you think they meant to hurt you?
needyjaguar2
yes . he always apologizes deeply... but when I am hurt... he leaves me alone
needyjaguar2
not really.. he has anger issues i feel
loukeoc
tell him that you need to discuss what happened with him and that you're really hurt
loukeoc
1
see. maybe he didnt mean to hurt you. everyone gets angry sometimes
needyjaguar2
thanks... you are genuinely kind
loukeoc
1
so if you want discuss it with him, or if you know he is really sorry forgive him bcz everyone does mistakes
needyjaguar2
he gets angry upto insane level
loukeoc
you're welcome! if you need anything i am there for you
loukeoc
1
and if you want to discuss anything privately you could talk to me on Instagram. as you want
needyjaguar2
he doesn't know how to discuss things. he gets irritated
loukeoc
1
talk to him about his anger issues. maybe he's passing by some problems
needyjaguar2
how do I find you
loukeoc
talk to him about it. check if he's passing by some hard times. and if not,tell him that he should start listening more and try controling his anger bcz it may cause him problems with people
loukeoc
on this app there isnt a private chat but if you want i could talk to you on Instagram
loukeoc
1
whenever you need something you could just post another message just like this one and many will see it, and if i saw it I'll reply to you
loukeoc
1
are you feeling better?
needyjaguar2
yes. i feel little light. you are kind and well behaved. thanks
loukeoc
i hope i helped you. goodluck and if you need anything post another message.
needyjaguar2
how do I find you
loukeoc
on this app?
needyjaguar2
no.. on Instagram
loukeoc
whats your account name
needyjaguar2
i want to know yours as i am a teacher. i want to make sure that you are not any known person... as it would be really embarrassing
