hi guys, how you are doing? I want to say something which I find really odd about someone...so there are my 2 best friends of 8years.... one of them is my boyfriend and another one is a bro to me.... I don't know why but he is started to avoid me since 2021 and I didn't notice that until now.... because we all are mutual friends, so we have to face each other every now & then. but he avoids me so much so that if we are on a conference call he will not respond to any of my statements and now it becomes so bad that our friend group also started noticing that he didn't want to interact with me or make any effort in talking to me............. and if you think I am over thinking then it's not a thing, he is really avoiding me at all cost and I don't know what I have done wrong. I don't even communicate much because of these difference because I feel left out so I don't communicate much I didn't say anything hurtful or I don't have any recent bad incidences... then why it is happening!

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shivang · Answer

Have conversation with him directly

winterpanda · Answer

I have tried many times

shivang · Answer

Take your boyfriend help in case

shivang · Answer

or maybe you are his crush but untill now he is somehow managing his feelings ( just a guess)

winterpanda · Answer

my boyfriend also said that 'you are right about him, he really is trying hard to avoid'

winterpanda · Answer

if I'm his crush then also... is it my fault or what🥺..... I'm really open by nature, he can say anything to me if he feel crushing... on me🤦🏻‍♀️

shivang · Answer

boys are not like that

winterpanda · Answer

but not saying anything & ignoring me.... these things are making me carzy,......

shivang · Answer

but that's just my assumption

winterpanda · Answer

I'm not sure...... but other than that... I don't know what is the.. damn reason

shivang · Answer

Jab cause pata nahi chalega tab tak to kuch nahi kaha jaa sakta

shivang · Answer

baaki tumhe apna behaviour tohda control karna padega

winterpanda · Answer

to cause pata karne k liye... on point conversation... karna padta hai.... which also he is avoiding & reply me 'eisa kuch nahi hai/nothing' ye sab hota hai

shivang · Answer

let him do what he want

shivang · Answer

tum uske ghar jaa sakti ho

shivang · Answer

kya pata vaha se kuch pata chal jaae

winterpanda · Answer

I am letting him to whatever he wants...... it's just ki Bura lagta hai, we are school friends of 8 year....... friendship is not a small thing...he is sort of family & suddenly itna change

shivang · Answer

hota hai

winterpanda · Answer

& ghar pe bhi he don't open up to any one.... so it's also difficult to know

shivang · Answer

agar mai tumhaari jagah hota to pakad leta usse kuch kareebi dosto ke saath milkar (kind of kidnap)or jab nahi chorta, jab to apna issue na bata ta

winterpanda · Answer

good.. idea😅& being a girl... I can't just kidnap him🤣...... but thanks for listening

shivang · Answer

tum nahi to tumhara boyfriend to kar sakt hai vo bhi to bestfriend hai uska

shivang · Answer

and off course you can do if you wanted

winterpanda · Answer

actually... we tried... Last month..ki baat ho............ but at last he avoided

shivang · Answer

to fir kuch nahi kar sakte

shivang · Answer

let him be

winterpanda · Answer

I'm stressed... but I'm also human .... I left him now... if he wants to talk to me then it's okay, otherwise let it be.

winterpanda · Answer

thanks for your help

winterpanda · Answer

☺️💕🙏🏻

shivang · Answer

your welcome

shivang · Answer

talking with open minded people is blessing.

winterpanda · Answer

☺️☺️ absolutely

help me please

how do I change for the better?

difficult tym after breakup