i am not able to share my feelings with anyone..i feel like they won't understand me or what will be the outcome if i share what will they think ...i am not emotionally attached to my parents too... i talk with my friends share happy moments with them bt when it comes to my problems i built a wall around me i don't let anyone know about my problems either friends or family...i feel like i won't be able to share anything with them ever whenever i tried nobody understood sometimes they say i feel sorry..i don't want them to pity me ... i always feel comfortable when I share my thoughts with someone i don't know who don't know how i look cause i feel when they see us they take pity or judge us ...an anonymous friend is better whom you don't know or won't ask how u look they just listen ur problems and try to help or understand u sometimes we just need someone who will listen without asking to see u or ask how u look....i just wanted to share my thoughts sry everyone for the disturbance

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i am not able to share my feelings with anyone..i feel like they won't understand me or what will be the outcome if i share what will they think ...i am not emotionally attached to my parents too... i talk with my friends share happy moments with them bt when it comes to my problems i built a wall around me i don't let anyone know about my problems either friends or family...i feel like i won't be able to share anything with them ever whenever i tried nobody understood sometimes they say i feel sorry..i don't want them to pity me ... i always feel comfortable when I share my thoughts with someone i don't know who don't know how i look cause i feel when they see us they take pity or judge us ...an anonymous friend is better whom you don't know or won't ask how u look they just listen ur problems and try to help or understand u sometimes we just need someone who will listen without asking to see u  or ask how u look....i just wanted to share my thoughts sry everyone for the disturbance

nera05 · Answer

you disturbed no one. I completely understand, because I have caught myself in multiple situations where I was pouring my heart out to a stranger and not my closest friends. I think many here can relate...

Moonmin05 · Answer

yeah i can understand

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

...I think I'm the same here.

Moonmin05 · Answer

I'm an introvert..i don't meet so many PPL thatz why it's hard for me

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

let me ask....what do you do to distract yourself especially when you are bored...

Moonmin05 · Answer

i usually watch movies or do some creative activities or listen songs

Moonmin05 · Answer

i have a friendly nature i make friends very easily too but it's kinda complicated like an ambivert who can be both

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

I get you now buddy...

Moonmin05 · Answer

yeah what about you

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

honestly, getting high while listening to lofi.....alone.

Moonmin05 · Answer

i also love that kind of songs

Moonmin05 · Answer

i love to stay alone bt it's just sometimes I feel unwanted

Moonmin05 · Answer

i really try to be good to everyone bt it can't be always happens 😐

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

unwanted, why do you feel like that?

Moonmin05 · Answer

because it's like PPL don't understand me they make me feel like that i m not needed my words doesn't matter

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

well, honestly you don't sound uninteresting to me...maybe for anyone who makes you feel like that, just ignore them.

Moonmin05 · Answer

I've always been there for everyone bt whenever i tried to reach there's none my parents want me to understand everything bt they never considered how i feel sometimes i feel like i don't deserve these things like happiness and all i feel like a burden to my parents and friends

Moonmin05 · Answer

i hve always ignored them tried to enjoy my own company bt it doesn't always work sometimes it's just too much to ignore and as u know everything has a limit

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

sorry, I don't know what to tell you but you have to stop thinking like that  I believe that we are our own harshest critics. maybe you are not as much of a burden as you think.

Moonmin05 · Answer

like i said I've never cared about it...u don't have to say sry i am used to it and yeah i Love them from the bottom of my heart ...it's just I've always felt that my problems will be a burden to them that's why i always keep it to myself..that's the. reason I'm always don't get attached to anyone

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

and are you comfortable with that?

Moonmin05 · Answer

tbh i can't say I'm comfortable it's just I'm used to it

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

you know what...I agree with you,  maybe getting used to how things are is enough, as long as we can live with ourselves then I think that's what Important.

Moonmin05 · Answer

i totally agree with that i recently have alot in my mind bt i don't u know share it it's a lot to think straight rn

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

it is alot...

Moonmin05 · Answer

yeah 😐

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

but we are smart...we'll figure things out

Moonmin05 · Answer

yeah I am smart ...bt i think sometimes is it too much to ask for happiness or my parents love or tym

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

its your right to ask for those things but, you also have to check their situation as well.

Moonmin05 · Answer

i know I've always considered there feelings first that's the reason for detachment i never wanted to disturb or burden them and they never considered to care or ask about me

Moonmin05 · Answer

they love me bt neither understand me nor have tym for me it's like i live with strangers

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

if I told you my parents are the same as yours would you believe me, I mean its like I grew up from that kind of household but I got used to it even when I moved out...we never talk that much but when we see each other we do show affection.

Moonmin05 · Answer

yeah i can relate to that and ofcourse i believe that it can be true

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

don't worry we always find ways to cope.....

Moonmin05 · Answer

yeah that's right btw it was nice talking to you

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

you too...till next time.

Moonmin05 · Answer

next time?

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

yea...I thot you were leaving

Moonmin05 · Answer

no if u want we can be friends

Moonmin05 · Answer

is it really bad to get supplementary in exam

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

I would like that...

Moonmin05 · Answer

then how can we contact

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

telegram or Twitter.

Moonmin05 · Answer

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

how can I find you on telegram?

Moonmin05 · Answer

name?

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

yeah...

Moonmin05 · Answer

username @Asmi Tamrakar

fellowunnamed0 · Answer

I just go by Logan

Moonmin05 · Answer

ok u can text there

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