and i feel so bad sometimes but when I look at her
dopeysnipe8
hi
annoyedsalt9
hey
annoyedsalt9
imagine she was his ex . but he never stopped loving her.
annoyedsalt9
now I am so used to him . i have become emotionally dependent on him
annoyedsalt9
it's so hard and confusing
amanpeace9
why are you thinking soo much ... make new friend ... move on from past
annoyedsalt9
new friend
annoyedsalt9
yeah that would be with time right
empathicorange3
See you broke up with him for a reason right?
amanpeace9
talk with others ... busy your self
annoyedsalt9
he broke up with me
annoyedsalt9
yeah
empathicorange3
did he cheat on you ?
annoyedsalt9
sort of
annoyedsalt9
he likes his ex
empathicorange3
Then why are you even feeling bad ?
annoyedsalt9
1
when he was with me and told me that he wouldn't be able to keep me happy
empathicorange3
1
He was a damn person who was with you and he realized he liked his ex and he just abandoned you.
annoyedsalt9
1
so what is the point of being together
empathicorange3
2
It's like he had to realize his feelings for her. and he could do that without being in love with someone else.
empathicorange3
2
If he had wandering feelings for her how did she even come into a relationship with you ?
amanpeace9
dear ... life is too short .. do not waste emotion and time with people who do not care about u and he is not worthy to your attention
annoyedsalt9
we were in the same batch and matched our vibe
annoyedsalt9
typical how people start dating and fall in love
empathicorange3
and did he mention her when he was with you ?
annoyedsalt9
yup
annoyedsalt9
he had spoken of his past
annoyedsalt9
what all he did for her blah blah
empathicorange3
As an ex sort of or like comparing sort of ?
annoyedsalt9
he never told she is like that u are not so
annoyedsalt9
he used to say on how nice she was and how much he did for her
annoyedsalt9
that he can go out of the way for her
empathicorange3
Yeah let me tell you something. My boyfriend had an ex. He said that she was really good helped him alot and that she would that this for him. She would bunk college for him and go out whenever he wanted.
empathicorange3
And in my case I was compared which was awful. I brokeup with him recently. I think he got a new gf now cause he used to say a girl was behind hom proposing everyday.
empathicorange3
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I broke up with two months ago. And I don't care a damn because I had a reason because he wasn't worth me. And trust me your bf is not worth you.
amanpeace9
right @ empathi
annoyedsalt9
That's so strong of you , cheers
empathicorange3
And he said he was breaking up with you because he couldn't keep you happy ? No way. He should change it "he couldn't make himself happy so he just left you dry to the air to keep himself happy".
annoyedsalt9
I had become emotionally dependent one with him , so now it's shaking me
amanpeace9
she is very talented
empathicorange3
Once we are into a relationship annoyedsalt we become self dependant on each other because we love and trust each other in relationship.
annoyedsalt9
you are right
empathicorange3
And once that trust is broken even if it's hard we should leave it ourselves. Because being in something that hurts you isn't anymore love.
empathicorange3
He broke you for his self happiness. Why should you care about his ex or his gf anymore.
annoyedsalt9
it feels so right when u say this
empathicorange3
If you feel sad or emotional then remember one thing "You had a reason and you know why and what kind of a person he was and it should make you feel I don't want it. if he wouldn't break up I would have broken up with him "
amanpeace9
salute @empathicorange3
empathicorange3
Be strong annoyedsalt. It's Ok to feel hurt sometimes cause we are humans. But you should stay strong and learn to be self dependant from now on. After all you were born alone and just because some idiot dumped you, you don't need to be jealous or sad. You deserve to be happy girl. So go for it. Live your life like you never even met a trash guy like him. Trust Me you can do it.
annoyedsalt9
thank you so much for your lovely words empathicorange ... feeling a lot better now ...
