my bf went for a mission for a month urgently. he gave his phone to his cousin sister as his mother has cancer and is hospitalized. Not knowing anything ,i kept on texting him but it was his cousin who was checking my msgs and ignored them. Finally after 10 days she replied and informed me about the above situation. i told her i am his bro's gf . conversation went smoothly that day but next day she blocked me from his id when i texted hi. i have been in block list for a month now. I don't know what to assume of this act and how i should react. i dont know if i should be complaining about all this if and when my bf comes back. i have no clue if my bf is back or not. what should be make of all this? how should i react??

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my bf went for a mission for a month urgently. he gave his phone to his cousin sister as his mother has cancer and is hospitalized. Not knowing anything ,i kept on texting him but it was his cousin who was checking my msgs and ignored them. Finally after 10 days she replied and informed me about the above situation. i told her i am his bro's gf . conversation went smoothly that day but next day she blocked me from his id when i texted hi. i have been in block list for a month now. I don't know what to assume of this act and how i should  react. i dont know if i should be complaining about all this if and when my bf comes back. i have no clue if my bf is back or not. what should be make of all this? how should i react??

dearclam5 · Answer

Hii

adoringburritos9 · Answer

hi

dearclam5 · Answer

Take sometime

dearclam5 · Answer

See what happen

dearclam5 · Answer

He is really in trouble then he definitely contact you soon

emptytacos1 · Answer

i have no doubts about my bf. its this girl's act of blocking menthat has disturbed me

dearclam5 · Answer

If he wants to break up without any reason then you deserve batter

dearclam5 · Answer

Okay I see

dearclam5 · Answer

In his home his family is really strict it is happen in boys home also

dearclam5 · Answer

They don't share usually

dearclam5 · Answer

Take time everything will be as usual

emptytacos1 · Answer

no, they are not strict. its just they want him to get married but i m not ready ryt nw so we hv kept our relation secret as of now. even his cousin sister asked me why we are not getting married bcoz his mother wants it ........i wonder why would his cousin sister BLOCK me after talking so frankly???

dearclam5 · Answer

Yeah I got your point

emptytacos1 · Answer

he went for a mission, meaning nothing is allowed, no phone,gadgets etc. Also i can contact him through fb only bcoz he uses office phone. but now i am blocked!!!! i cant contact him by any means now

emptytacos1 · Answer

does it make sense, his sister blocking me???? why would she???

dearclam5 · Answer

Oh that's really sad and you feel tense

dearclam5 · Answer

Noo

dearclam5 · Answer

It's doesn't make any sense

emptytacos1 · Answer

exactly😔.... should i be complaining about all this to my bf when he returns???

dearclam5 · Answer

Of course yes

dearclam5 · Answer

You need to do that

emptytacos1 · Answer

will that mk me sound like a bad girl if i complain? especially when his mother got cancer and at same time he went for on a mission nd its this cousin sister only who is looking after his mother in hospital

dearclam5 · Answer

See you need to complain of his cousin sister. Just say when you talk in between smoothly say

emptytacos1 · Answer

hmmm...should i be complaining about him going on a missio  without informing me, especially when it gonna take a month or so???

emptytacos1 · Answer

the guy never tells me whenever he needs to go for official work ...usually it took few days but this time its a month!! else the guy is very good....

dearclam5 · Answer

No she says like incident don't complain.

emptytacos1 · Answer

did not get you

dearclam5 · Answer

Like.usall say like this happen in those day you meet that friend and all and in between say about this also

emptytacos1 · Answer

ok...i will try to remain calm till i am unblocked again

emptytacos1 · Answer

thank you

emptytacos1 · Answer

how would my bf know that i am blocked???😢

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?