what can you do if ur feeling emotionally abused?

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farshy756 · Answer

hi

ntombho · Answer

hy

farshy756 · Answer

who is emotionally abusing you?

ntombho · Answer

my husband

farshy756 · Answer

have you confronted him about this?

ntombho · Answer

yes many times

farshy756 · Answer

what was his first reaction to this?

ntombho · Answer

he blames me for everything he's doing to me

farshy756 · Answer

was he like this forever?

ntombho · Answer

no he stated this when he was working far from home like we are south african now he's working at Botswana 🇧🇼

farshy756 · Answer

has he ever made you feel like you should be grateful, he is with you?

ntombho · Answer

yes

farshy756 · Answer

has he been distant from you since he started working far?

ntombho · Answer

yes but I'm with him but he come home with some lip sticks on his clothes and even in his musk that he comes home's wearing

farshy756 · Answer

do you think maybe he is cheating on you?

ntombho · Answer

I know that he's cheating that I'm very sho of it

farshy756 · Answer

since when you know this?

ntombho · Answer

last year June

farshy756 · Answer

why are you still in this situation when you know he is cheating on you?

ntombho · Answer

I love him

farshy756 · Answer

but he is emotionally abusing you?

ntombho · Answer

yes,because the way he's talking to me is like he wants to agree with everything he's saying

farshy756 · Answer

so, he oversteps your boundaries? have you told him not to?

ntombho · Answer

I have tried so many times because even his girlfriend she is insulting me always so I don't know what to do anymore

farshy756 · Answer

do you have any children?

ntombho · Answer

yes we have 2 boys

farshy756 · Answer

I would suggest you to divorce your husband but you love him, I understand it's difficult for you to let go of someone who gave you so much to remember but you have to leave him, for yourself, you don't want to be in a relationship where you are abused and used.

ntombho · Answer

I've been trying to do so many times,now I'm stuck I don't know a way forward

farshy756 · Answer

what is the reason that you're feeling stuck?

ntombho · Answer

I don't know whether I should go or stay

farshy756 · Answer

you should go

ntombho · Answer

I don't if will I be able to love again cause I've lost interest in man my mind says if u go will u be able to find someone who's better or worse

farshy756 · Answer

it's normal to feel that when ending a relationship but this feeling remains just for a couple of time, but if you don't take yourself out of this relationship you will regret forever.

ntombho · Answer

on Wednesday I'm going back home so I will try to sort myself out

farshy756 · Answer

all the best, you will get better soon and I know you will take the best decision for yourself.

ntombho · Answer

thank you,and thank you for your time and for speaking to me

farshy756 · Answer

anytime 😊

hello

help me please