i was dating a guy. he went away for the summer and came back and he changed towards me. i confronted him and he broke up with me. said he cant be in a relationship due to work and family committments. i begged him not to so he came back. i insisted things could work out between us but now hes pulling away on purpose making excuses not to see me and theres nothing i can do. i get anxiety when i think about him and the entire situation. i have gotten rejected so many times by others

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jealousburritos9 · Answer

for how long did u date him?

madorange8 · Answer

look he don't want you and he is telling you on your face then why you holding back you are not worthless that you begging him to come back would you prefer tears and insult your whole life or would you prefer them for some time

kathyjoe · Answer

madorange8 you are right. i am not worthless. but after rejection upon rejection i feel as though i am

kathyjoe · Answer

we dated for at least one year

madorange8 · Answer

it has nothing to do with you and why you letting yourself a option for everyone love is not the only thing that keeps you alive

madorange8 · Answer

so what even after one year he dont care about you then whats the purpose of your care

jealousburritos9 · Answer

wait so still love him and that's why it hurts? I can relate but I want you to surround yourself with as many people as you can and spend time them try ur hard to forget about him ok? I have been thru same and I know how it feels

madorange8 · Answer

don't depend on other people when you have yourself people will use you and through you away like dust have confidence in yourself try to be happy with your ownself work for your career not for boys or their shit

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Let him go if he doesn't want to stay. You deserve better. Never beg anyone to stay

kathyjoe · Answer

im not sure i love him. what hurts is knowing the amount of rejection i faced and not wanting to feel how it felt again

jealousburritos9 · Answer

mad orange8 she is probably sensitive than him boys are jerks they can call it off even after 10years or relationship and feel nothing where we girls feel awful pain so it's hard to not care and even when u think that, the person you love doesn't cares about you makes u feel even worse

madorange8 · Answer

so move on work on yourself past is what gone dont make your future miserable you have value dont let it waste

madorange8 · Answer

thats the problem jealousburritos9 we feel pain bcoz we cared but dont bea object for them so they can play whenever they want

jealousburritos9 · Answer

well that's good if your sure if you don't love him.. he never deseved you anyways also never sell yourself low. Please take care urself and put urself first than others. I feel you but don't give a shit about others. who cares if they reject you they don't deserve a QUEEN like you girl... go and reject them lol

kathyjoe · Answer

thanks 😄@ jealousburritos9 i really am selling myself low and i hate that. u know what had hurt most? was to know he was going to move on with someone else. but i guess its ok. they all did and i survived🙄 also, we were friends b4. i didnt want to date him but he insisted and i gave in. he said im the one at fault because i didnt have patience but i think after a year dating id have at least been his gf. i can let go. it does hurt lik hell but i guess its ok

madorange8 · Answer

nothing is impossible it will hurt at the moment but soon you will be happy after bad phase there is good time waiting ahead of you .love yourself dont think low of you or worthless prove who you are and what no you can do

kathyjoe · Answer

thanks for the encouragement  @ madorange8

wornoutcaviar9 · Answer

same feelings here my feeling broke into pieces i miss him even though

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?