fed up of my husband's way of handling things. whatever conversation I do he judges me and gets pissed off easily or gets angry. why is he like that? he was not like this before.

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excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

You can talk to him about why and how he has changed. Communication is the key here. Have you tried talking to him? Talk to him once and see if anything changes

Shockera · Answer

Try doin sonething good for him to calm him down. maybe take him out somewhere for a lunch or dinner or at home. Set the calm and speak to him nicely. And tell him how you feel and what u need from him.

Fedupoflifeissues27 · Answer

oh forgot to mention, we are doing long distance

shivanshi · Answer

same problem. I am going mad

Fedupoflifeissues27 · Answer

also I tried talking to him but he doesn't listen what I have to say and speak his part. it affecting my mental health and he's not in understandable state

Fedupoflifeissues27 · Answer

why people make it difficult to live for others and themselves

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

But communication is the only key here. It wouldn't be wise to involve anybody else in your marital life, but you could possibly consider couple therapy. It could be effective

Fedupoflifeissues27 · Answer

the statement I always use with him is communicate,  communicate even if it's serious but he won't understand that

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Since he is unwilling to communicate, you should consider couple therapy for better mental wellbeing

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?