My parents and relatives didn't treat me better even though I loved them very much. They used to always try to make me embarassed infront of other people. They never loved me . I got into a relationship 6 years ago , I loved him so much after few years he started bodyshaming and abusing me. I held back everything since I never got any love. Atlast after a few days of our 5th anniversary I found out he cheated on me. When I asked about that he said he only like the girl because I didn't pay attention to him due to my studies. I was heartbroken I have suffered several physical abuse from my family because they didn't approve this relation. Finally I broke up with him. Even after that he started disturbing me by telling we broke up because of other issues to coverup his mistake and to reunite. Now I can't trust anyone. My parents didn't allow me to go to study in another district for studies because of their unwanted thoughts .

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My parents and relatives didn't treat me better even though I loved them very much. They used to always try to make me embarassed infront of other people. They never loved me .  I got into a relationship 6 years ago , I loved him so much after few years he started bodyshaming and abusing me. I held back everything since I never got any love. Atlast after a few days of our 5th anniversary I found out he cheated on me. When I asked about that he said he only like the girl because I didn't pay attention to him due to my studies. I was heartbroken I have suffered several physical abuse from my family because they didn't approve this relation. Finally I broke up with him. Even after that he started disturbing me by telling we broke up because of other issues to coverup his mistake and to reunite. Now I can't trust anyone. My parents didn't allow me to go to study in another district for studies because of their unwanted thoughts .

BINGO737 · Answer

deep down you also know he is a fake person....he treated you badly...think about this and stop talking to him...secondly bro...you dont need anyone to shine you can do anything on your own so stop thinking about your family

nimisha44 · Answer

I stopped talking to him . I try to concentrate on my studies but now my parents again became the obstacle in my life. I am a Professional course student , due to some reason my course center in the city has closed it has branches in all the other districts. But my parents are not allowing me to go their and study. I have been staying in home more than 1 year now. Fortunately I was doing 2 courses , i could study one atleast. They do treat me well. I used to spend alone in my room for weeks. I am not feeling anything, I just feel lost

nimisha44 · Answer

They don't treat me well. They used to say always since my birth I have given them only problems. They never loved me they are just destroying my life by doing all this.

mark2411 · Answer

listen sis it's alright no need to worry what they say about you and what they want you to do or not want you to do I know how this feels having this kind of parents, but be confident have faith in yourself, if is there anyone whom you think they will listen to you, share everything with them, if not then don't share all problems with one person, tell one problem to one person and another to someone else, and go out for a walk I suggest everyday but u can start with once in two days or a three days. it's ok nimisha of you are worried, u just have give your self sometime, spend time on yourself and do things you enjoy, and if the course you want to do is not available in your city then go with online option don't let others come in your way. best of luck be strong ☺️

mark2411 · Answer

iwp-hstj-det.    this is the Google meet code you can join it everyday between 20 to 22 and share your problems here too and it's not necessary to speak if you join you can just listen to them as others also discuss there own problems here I also didn't say anything in the meet and they are cool with it so try it

pd7890 · Answer

just think about yourself now sista.  you gave ur best on holding and handling ur relations no matter what now it's ur time to stay strong and stand by ur own self ITS TIME TO MAKE ALL UR DREAMS COME TRUE AND IF ITS NEEDED GO AND FIGHT FAIRLY FOR UR DREAMS.  it's all ur life people in it can be part of it not the whole life

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