Of course not! And I'm so very sorry to hear that. That sucks! Have you ever told him how you feel? If so, how'd he respond to that?

i spoke to him, bit the matter gets out of hand, the moment I start telling him about this, he says why don't you leave then.

whenever he is with me, he is a perfect person, but the moment he drops me everything changes.

Do you love him? I know this is really personal I'm just trying to help here... :-)

Yes, i do, and he has been taking me for granted.

it takes home hours to reply, and the moment he texts, i am all ears.

Can I tell you something without hurting your feelings?

yes sure.

Him saying: "Why don't you leave then" is like a threat. He's basically threatening that he'd be fine if you left. So I dunno... I just don't think he's the best guy for you! You might even be able to do better! But I dunno. I'm twelve. I just feel like he's taking advantage of you... I feel like he WANTS you to be all ears. He WANTS to see you in a vulnerable situation... I'm so sorry for saying all of that.

i have been in this relationship for really long, almost 5 years, it gets tough at this point to just leave.

I get that... I really do. I just think if he's gonna get worse he is soon, so getting out of there may be your best bet. You should try sitting him down... talking to him again, and monitoring his behavior; maybe see if things change for the better or for the worse. If in a month or so you notice things have just gotten worse, that's when I'd start considering it...

That is a really helpful idea, thank you.

Oh, you're welcome! I'm so happy I can actually be of some assistance!!! :-)

I'm here to talk anytime you'd like!

That is soo sweet, i feel better, i am not letting this relationship ruin my day.

Yes! That's the spirit! I dunno why, but that got me going. I'm not gonna let my parents ruin my day! YES!!!

You should not, do what you are supposed to, then do what you really love to.

Thanks!