what happened?

well I listen music at full volume

I went against my family and got braces and Dr asked me to extract 4 teeth for it and I wasn't sure about it but got it done as I had already paid down payment and if I said I didn't want to continue every one would shout me and even I wanted straighter teeth so thts ok we have loose something to get something and I did it and after few days on the internet I found out extracting teeth for braces will negatively affect your face and it'll age you faster and you'll have sagging skin, breathing problems and etc etc I freaked out and didn't knw wat to do I couldn't tell anybody about it because now everyone would blame me but I couldn't control and told everyone , they supported me instead and spoke to some people who got it done n all and even aksed dr about it he said nothing like that will happen but this internet made me believe that it will happen and I'm just stuck with that thought that something will happen to my face and I unable to move on with life

did you cross check all that internet information, don't always believe what internet says

my friend also got braces back in 2020 well he is just normal as before he got the braces

but I appreciate you for your decision making

Ya even I knw I shouldn't believe everything internet says but there's a girl who reversed her treatment which was done in her childhood

everyone said I shouldn't beleive her and there are so many people who have done and they are fine even after 20-25 years but it's stuck in my mind which is not allowing me to enjoy my life anymore Nothing makes me happy I cleared my CA foundation exams it didn't make me happy Im literally crying every day, it's been 5 months

it's the worst decision of my life

one simple advice @sanjana123, refrain from looking for medical procedures on internet, it will confuse you more rather than giving clarity, instead go to respective doctor and get your doubts cleared. even if you wanna get educated about a medical procedures, look for certified and authentic journals from medical institutions or health department only. But the most important thing is you're getting the right support from people around you, that makes you win half the war already. I hope you getting my point here.

https://youtu.be/YRUQrQqqvH4 watch this and her other vedios and comments on those vedios literally every one here are telling it's true doctors doesn't tell all risks and just make money

Thanks for your advice and I'm trying my best to come out of it and ya my family friends everyone around me are supporting me but my own mind is my enemy now that's the problem ,always thinking negatively

problem hai to solution bhi hai, agar chinta jaydaa ho rahi hai to brace ke baare mai acha burra sab kuch padh lo

saayad tab koi idea mil jaae

i understand you doing best of all, and yes it's your mind is playing tricks on you by generating negetive thoughts and it's will continue you to do so momentarily, just participate in everything that makes you happy and live this will bring positivity.

@shivang i think problem itself arises when @sanjana started looking for that braces procedure, see the procedure is already done, she got expert doctors advices, if i be in her shoes i would have never look further for the same on internet.

@blissfulsheep7 exactly thats why I stopped looking for anything on internet about that anymore but that thought is stuck in my mind which is not letting me live my life

Look I know what you are saying @blissfull, but Sanjana is worried about the Facial Deformation. And what happened to her is because of lake of knowledge about braces. that's why i am saying is to just gather the knowledge about braces from every possible angle before she do anything this time. more knowledge and understand you have about the topic, much better decision you make.

whatever you read on internet cross-check that info, simple, just explore every possibilty

@Shivang i really appreciate your concern, but Sir I'm speaking from experience i once walked that dark Isle myself and trust me it will create a more fuss than resolving it, imagine you getting into something where most of docs can't suggest right solutions cuz they encountered such case and you see failing health of your loved one everyday. you left with no options than to take matters in your own hands. anyways i never want anyone to go thru that.

@blissful I understand, but I can sense where this convo is going and I just said to gain the knowledge not to loss yourself into it.

idek how to react to this anymore, but I wish better mental state and lot of positivity for @sanjana. thanks for being good ears

thank @shivang and @blissfulsheep7 for listening to me and helping me I really couldn't talk to my family members because they would be really worried about me more than I am so that's why I came here

I understand @sajana123 and you can talk to us anytime unless we are busy

it's okay @sanjana, maybe you can help me someday when I'm at lower altitude of life lol 🤣. we all here to support eachother other.

i hope you recover very soon from these negetivity in your mind, but if you don't, please seek professional councelling ASAP, there's nothing wrong about it. Be happy and take care

yes@blissfulsheep7 I'll think about it I'm just waiting for my mother's birthday to be over I don't want to spoil it by telling them how I'm feeling

acceptance is like primary key to unlock the solutions for problems, which you already found and I'm glad you do have it now. but I'm smelling some freshly backed cookies and cake did i heard correctly your mum's birthday is around corner? what are your plans to make it more special this year ?

not yet planned anything but this tym it's going to simple but next year's she'll be turning 50 so next year it'll be special

i think you should channel all your energy and focus to make her feel special this year too, 49 years is achievement itself and then to she successfully raised you into beautiful and intelligent human being. She deserves acknowledgement, don't you think?

yaa you're rit who knows wat will happen until next year

great! let me know if you need any further assistance. I'll be glad to help 😊