what about people causes your anxiety?Must be a reason.
clarke34
i get brainfog and start to think that should i keep doing my own thing or see them and wonder that How much should i talk to them and what if i keep thinking about wheter who is doing what and in return i waste my time and my work get disrupted also what if they think about negative about me in their minds and start talking behind my back My question is should i attend all those people or not
farshy756
you shouldn't attend all those people.
clarke34
should i try to impress someone by practicing what to say if they talked to me or just keep casual talk
clarke34
because in my mind i feel that im hurting people by not responding but inside im double minded regarding work and these thinga
farshy756
just be yourself while talking with someone, you can just keep it casual.
clarke34
things
clarke34
hey farshy do you feel confident regarding your priorities because i need to
farshy756
i will just say the truth, you may or may not have hurted them by not responding but you are not obligated to respond to everyone who speaks to you when you have your own concerns to deal with.
clarke34
thnaks for understanding😀
clarke34
you really solved my doubt
farshy756
you can also feel confident regarding your priorities, just make time in a day or week or month, to just give it to yourself. I also felt bad saying no to people I care about but it was necessary to put myself first.
clarke34
hey farshy and growing girl do you also get overwhelmed by thinking about these kind of feelings
farshy756
that's great to hear that I could help you, @clark 😊
farshy756
a lot @clark, I sometime even use to beat myself when I got overwhelmed.
clarke34
oh i m sure that exact time of testing is the main button of yes or no i think we should press it carefully😀
farshy756
you're right@clark
farshy756
do you also have anxiety@growinggirl?
clarke34
and Extroverted people have this advantage over us but real game of testing comes of how we deal with it righttt😊
clarke34
i think we need someone to have our back in these situations
farshy756
right @clark, but extroverted people don't have it any easy.
farshy756
yeah, someone whom you can trust, but it's becoming really difficult to find people who will not take advantage of you.
clarke34
oh thats the main point i was really concerning about..😔
farshy756
finding the right person has become more difficult in this world of filters, it's so difficult to know someone's true intentions.
clarke34
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and the more big thing is this that even we luckily mangaed to find even 1 such person its difficult to estimate the probability of sustainment of such relation
clarke34
there is always something fishy around us
clarke34
well it was nice talking to u see ya
farshy756
it was nice talking to you too @clark see ya.
clarke34
☺
numbnachos25
good for you be happy congrats . it is actually easy to find people who wont share videos of you and who talk . I am concerned too.
