I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend since 1 year 6 months and since nearly for 9 months we didn't have sex at all. He is the first guy with whom I lost my virginity and he also lost his virginity with me. He got a urinary tract infection (UTI) recently since just 1 week and he is blaming it on me so badly, it's definitely not from me I have that confidence because I'm very hygienic person, he is the first guy with whom I lost my virginity and it has been literally nearly 9 months we didn't have sex and he got his UTI just 1 week back. He is doubting on me and blaming on me, I'm just so stressed out and I'm even ready to take a test for his satisfaction to show the proof that it's not from me, but he is just making me feel so bad and he said he regrets having sex with me. He used so many hurtful words, I swear on God that UTI is definitely not from me but he is just being really very rude to me.

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alertchile0 · Answer

So what are you planing on doing now?

alertchile0 · Answer

there are high chances it is not because of you

cutiepie1256 · Answer

He told me to get a test, but in few days I have my college exams and I told him after my exams I'll definitely get a test but I can't go alone so I asked him to come with me and he is not ready to come with me. I don't know what is going on in his mind and even after this conversation he is still blaming me for his UTI.

satesh · Answer

look, getting ur test done is ok, it will be precautional. secondly blaming without reason is not good on his part. so u can give a thought about continue in relationship after having clear talk with him.

DearDiary · Answer

he is an asshole for treating u like this.. It's not how UTI works..

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?