Hello 👋 Mujhe smjh ni aa rha kha se shuru kru mai..mai ek chemistry student hu.. average student thi ek fr maine IIT ke liye prep krne lgi..phle sb akele self study se start kiya maine..fr online mujhe kuch frnds mile jinshe help le leti thi fr ek person mila mujhe jo study ko leke kaafi serious tha or mai b meri maths weak thi to usne meri help ki 3-4 months hm sath me pdhe...fr mujhe IIT se hi passout ek person mila chem branch ka..usse classes lene lgi free but wo accha nhi tha study me kaafi kuch glt bta deta maine math wale frnd se sb share krti thi.(I like him & he too..but hmne kbhi kha nhi ek dusre se) fr usse mujhse bola ki tum usse mt pdho..tum dheere dheere demotivate ho rhi ho or kaafi down ja rhi ho or ye sch b tha mai apne frnd (math student) ke sath 10-12 hr pdhti thi jb wo tha but ab mai 5-6 hr wo b jabardasti..khush nhi thi...mere frnd ne mujhe kaafi force Kiya ki mai dur rhu usse but mai study loss se drti thi or kuch time me hi exam h mera ishliye block krne ke baad b maine unblock Kiya or pdhti rhi bs... dheere dheere mera frnd mujse dur ho gya. Wo bs itna bolta h ki maine uska trust toda h..mai apne frnd ke baare me jyda kuch janti b nhi wo ek introvert person or bs whi bolta h jo imp ho like mostly study or knowledge ke baare me..meri hr problem solve krta tha but uske andr kya chl rha kbhi share ni kiya.. he's so perfect..I like him so deeply but wo dur h mujse.. hmari baatein hoti h but usne direct bola ki ab study ke baare me mujse koi baat mt Krna or na hi koi online game ( phle hm kaafi khela b krte the jb study se bore hote the) but wo random logo ke sath khelta h but mere sath nhi.. mujhse baatein Krna caahta h but limit me..or bolta h trust toda h maine or mai down chli gyi hu......phle mai study enjoy krti thi but ab mn nhi lgta... aisa nhi h ki kosish nhi krti ya fr pdhti nhi like 5-7 hr deti hu but wo productive nhi ho pata kuki mujhe meri kisi b mehnt ka result nhi mil rha... bachpan se hi mujhse kuch gltiya b hui h jiski wjh se meri family pareshan b rh chuki h kbhi mere health issues ki wjh se to kbhi meri glti ki wjh se...or na hi ab mujhe apne life ka purpose smjh nhi aa rha....kuch accha to kr ni pa rhi bs apni family or apno ko pareshan kr rhi hu...ab to hr choti chijo se drne b lgi hu height se...kisi se b baat krne ka mn nhi krta . Or na hi pdhne ka bs...soti rhu...na khane ka mn, na kuch or...mai makeup course or sketching Krna caahti hu but in sb ke liye sbse phle career imp h but mai pdhai nhi kr pa rhi..mai bs un ladkiyo ko dekhti rhti hu jo itna accha makeup krti h jo mai Krna caahti hu pta nhi kb se but kbhi moqa nhi mila.. i wanna set goals & complete it happily & I want him back please help me 😭😑 Mai bs ye sochti hu ki jb wo tha to saari chije kitni perfect thi or ab kuch b nhi rha..na wo or na hi koi wish....wo kaafi practical h mai kuch bta b nhi skti...
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Hello 👋 Mujhe smjh ni aa rha kha se shuru kru mai..mai ek chemistry student hu.. average student thi ek fr maine IIT ke liye prep krne lgi..phle sb akele self study se start kiya maine..fr online mujhe kuch frnds mile jinshe help le leti thi fr ek person mila mujhe jo study ko leke kaafi serious tha or mai b meri maths weak thi to usne meri help ki 3-4 months hm sath me pdhe...fr mujhe IIT se hi passout ek person mila chem branch ka..usse classes lene lgi free but wo accha nhi tha study me kaafi kuch glt bta deta maine math wale frnd se sb share krti thi.(I like him & he too..but hmne kbhi kha nhi ek dusre se) fr usse mujhse bola ki tum usse mt pdho..tum dheere dheere demotivate ho rhi ho or kaafi down ja rhi ho or ye sch b tha mai apne frnd (math student) ke sath 10-12 hr pdhti thi jb wo tha but ab mai 5-6 hr wo b jabardasti..khush nhi thi...mere frnd ne mujhe kaafi force Kiya ki mai dur rhu usse but mai study loss se drti thi or kuch time me hi exam h mera ishliye block krne ke baad b maine unblock Kiya or pdhti rhi bs... dheere dheere mera frnd mujse dur ho gya. Wo bs itna bolta h ki maine uska trust toda h..mai apne frnd ke baare me jyda kuch janti b nhi wo ek introvert person or bs whi bolta h jo imp ho like mostly study or knowledge ke baare me..meri hr problem solve krta tha but uske andr kya chl rha kbhi share ni kiya.. he's so perfect..I like him so deeply but wo dur h mujse.. hmari baatein hoti h but usne direct bola ki ab study ke baare me mujse koi baat mt Krna or na hi koi online game ( phle hm kaafi khela b krte the jb study se bore hote the) but wo random logo ke sath khelta h but mere sath nhi.. mujhse baatein Krna caahta h but limit me..or bolta h trust toda h maine or mai down chli gyi hu......phle mai study enjoy krti thi but ab mn nhi lgta... aisa nhi h ki kosish nhi krti ya fr pdhti nhi like 5-7 hr deti hu but wo productive nhi ho pata kuki mujhe meri kisi b mehnt ka result nhi mil rha... bachpan se hi mujhse kuch gltiya b hui h jiski wjh se meri family pareshan b rh chuki h kbhi mere health issues ki wjh se to kbhi meri glti ki wjh se...or na hi ab mujhe apne life ka purpose smjh nhi aa rha....kuch accha to kr ni pa rhi bs apni family or apno ko pareshan kr rhi hu...ab to hr choti chijo se drne b lgi hu height se...kisi se b baat krne ka mn nhi krta . Or na hi pdhne ka bs...soti rhu...na khane ka mn, na kuch or...mai makeup course or sketching Krna caahti hu but in sb ke liye sbse phle career imp h but mai pdhai nhi kr pa rhi..mai bs un ladkiyo ko dekhti rhti hu jo itna accha makeup krti h jo mai Krna caahti hu pta nhi kb se but kbhi moqa nhi mila.. i wanna set goals & complete it happily & I want him back please help me 😭😑 Mai bs ye sochti hu ki jb wo tha to saari chije kitni perfect thi or ab kuch b nhi rha..na wo or na hi koi wish....wo kaafi practical h mai kuch bta b nhi skti...

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