I'm here, I'm here for you

I'm a girl

sorry about that but I'm here for ya...you are not unlucky, it's just universe is preparing you for something greater so that you don't mess that up

Hey I know what you are feeling but please if you need any help, I'm here

i am every time i got hope and then those hopes break in to pieces

hmm

hii

hii

you there @ zesty

yes i am here

why do u feel unlucky?

i just feel this way

because it's true

people are playing with my feelings

who played with ur feelings?? can u elaborate what happened with u??

there's this one boy in my society who used to look at me Stare at me and i notice this and i also started like him but now he behaves like there nothing

ig it was just temporary

uk there are some boys who do this for just fun

does he was making fun of me?

what about the attraction and feelings i had

this happens twice with me and that's why I'm feeling very hurt

when he was looking at you did you gave him attention??

attention as an i look at him too or even i don't look at him sometimes

but many times i have noticed him looking at me

The thing is you are looking for connection and whoever catches your eye, your mind perceives that person as your lover or someone to connect with and hence you feel connected. What you need to understand is you need to stop looking for connection and just focus that energy upon yourself

ig wolf is right

my be you are right

but you know i feel very unloved and lonely, alone from inside that i can't even tell you

is it bad to find connection?

No it's not bad to find a connection but it's bad to lose ourselves while finding that connection

see I've experienced what you are feeling and I'm still having pain but with that pain, I've gained some wisdom and that wisdom taught to look for opportunities and work on that in life.

look what life throws at you and you indulge yourself in every experience and chance you get and then learn from that thing and move forward and one day in all those experiences you'll find someone who'll love you the way you want to be loved

what kind of opportunities you are talking about?

Everything be it your professional life,your career, your family, experiences like going out with friends and try something different, talking to new people, joining gym, joining ngo, doing what you love like posting on Instagram, anything that lets you meet new people....following your passion is included too

just getting out of your comfort zone

to be honest when I say love it's not just mean romantic but even from my parents the love i deserve as a child Beck then i feel i didn't get that from friends the importance i should get they never give instead I'm bullyed in the school time when i was a teenager i had a lot of insecurity about my skin colour my face and i still have it

the one feeling that I'm feeling right now it's has a long painful story

behind it

and i guess that why my mind is finding love out side

hey you there?

don't be fixated on someone....don't do that mistake...i did that and i am suffering for that.....there are many boys out there....look in ur neighborhood or in ur workplace....i am sure you'll find someone who can love you for being who u r

but now i don't know i don't like my this behaviour i feel like I'm desperate and that I hate the most

i don't understand why i have to run over love

it's makes me feel like I'm desperate to be in love or want to get love

making yourself worthy of love is something you should focus on...it's not for you guiltystork...it's for everyone, you need to create that energy within you that people get attracted towards you. You cannot change your skin colour but you can change its appearance by going to the gym, you can gain knowledge and can make your mind smart, learn new skills, get yourself into fun activities...make yourself someone whom everyone wants to be around

what about my ugly face?

beauty isn't a stamp.... beauty of a face depends on the eyes looking at it....to someone u might be ugly and to someone u might be the most beautiful person....it just depends on the right person to appreciate ur beauty

everyone's ugly and everyone's beautiful. Face doesn't define it,someone who is attracted to your mind would keep you happy....don't look for beauty in your body, find your beauty in your mind and enhance it, cherish it

you know i have many things to say that I have experience as an teenage girl and yeah that time i maybe didn't understand much but as of now if i think of those moments now i understand the feelings of that years back incidents

what's your age

I'm a very introvert shy and very very simple girl and i dress very simple clothes and hair

22

you just need to get out of your house more

and find new people to talk, earn some money, enjoy what comes in your way

so when i was a teenager like all of my friends had a boyfriend and many other girls has been asked you know but never once in my whole life and boy as comes to me and said like he likes me or love me and never gave me attention

yes I'm really 22

i am doing a job so how much more i need to get out of my house more like

Relationships hurts more than being alone, trust me

are you in a relationship?

is there any other social media that we can connect on?

no I'm not in a relationship but I've been in many

but eventually you have some one who is your side apart from your family

I'm only comfortable here sorry

so you have experience what I'm feeling and what is happening with me right now?

yeah no issues... actually I won't be able to reply here so I thought we can talk to tomorrow and give you some wisdom

yes I have those experiences

ok no problem

btw are you a girl or boy?

just asking