that's what you think but that's not how it works! we're usually pressurized into this by peers and parents!
yeah i understand, but always accept ur own decision, because it's ur life
absolutely cause we have to be answerable to ourselfs at the end of the day isn't it!
yeah, So focus on ur health and habbits, and ignore all the negative thoughts, always do whatever makes u happy
that's a serious question, and the answer to it will be whenever we want to because evolution and innovation have shown what our human mind is capable of doing but the actual problems that comes is situation, family, responsibility, fears and uncertainty.
I appreciate the gesture and I do try my best but there's always a reminder that there's a timeline to everything
Don't be sad, and Stop overthinking about that types of questions
their is a timeline to something's, for example, child bearing, a women can only be fertile till menopause and if she wishes to bear a child then she has to bear one before 40 because the body starts to weaken after that, so it is risky for the women and the child and to bear a child is a huge responsibility, so before that you need a job for which you need a degree and you need a partner with whom you can have kids, in today's world their are exceptions but they are less.
but also in today's world if we have aspirations it's like we're overachiveres and alot of people don't want to be with that sort of women and it's I think even more complicated! Cause then yeah have a carrier and managing family "should be managed by a women" but also if she's not capable she can't have both and how is that fair?
I'm not sad bro I'm angry
in a society like India, usually getting a job, marriage and kids is something considered as happy life but it is not. our parents wish for us to live a risk free and stable life even if it means pressuring you into things that you are not ready for.
yeah we're just living somebody else's expectations! it's a pattern!
i know wingedbaboon3 it seems unfair and it is because taking care of home should be the jobs of both the partners and no women's career should be seen as a secondary jobs which she can leave for her husband and kids, every woman should be given the right to live life the way she desires to live but that's not always the case. the world is indeed a cruel place and we have to learn to survive.
ofcourse in India, u need to accept others decision
I'm so glad you get it @farshy756
you are right but in society there are only few who are privileged about this in general most of this happens like wt u said we don't have our rights to choose and its sad
yeah, usually we are forced in this system by our parents and when we realize it, it's seems like it had already been late to work for our dreams or we are not in an environment where we can fulfill our goals.
those who are privileged have it easy because they have don't face financial problems and they have a lot of options in front of them without fearing about the money it will cost. maybe privileged people have their own problems and i am judging them too harsh but it's just my opinion on my life experiences and you can disagree with me on this.
you really pin point the things which are stuck in my mind for very time
actually this issue can be solved by those who has good and right thoughts and also have real power
yeah but in todays world, everyone has their own problems and they don't want to waste their time on other people's problems. of course their are exceptions but in today's world, usually nothing comes for free
No such thing like right age ......
yeah you are right nothing comes free
i know nothing like right age that's wt ee belive but sometimes we are in that pressure that we have to choose