yeap, I just got off a call from my batchmate.... I was listening her rant... now I'm anxious... no idea why
deep_thinker
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What did you talk about?
skylar
something related to her scholarship test held in her coaching Institute, and how's she is anxious to cal her neet ug score.. it was more her talking... nd me listening
deep_thinker
What makes you feel bad during that conversation?
skylar
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listening to her... I guess, I don't mind.... but sometimes she goes overboard, like it was today 2nd or 3rd time she called only for these rant... I don't mind it as long as she is genuinely feeling like she needs someone to listen and it's relevant, on side note - I'm not at all a call person.
deep_thinker
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Does she spend time to listen to your problems?
skylar
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uhm... nope. none of my batchmate /frnds actually never do. they try to...some of them... but they just don't get it...
deep_thinker
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You have a kind heart, don't let anyone take advantage of it
skylar
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there were times when I avoided/ghosted them...but when we come in touch again.. and they share how they were struggling... it makes me feel guilty.
deep_thinker
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You have more than enough problems, it's okay to listen to their problems and try to solve it, but don't take their problems to your mind.
skylar
u r correct...thanks for listening tho!
deep_thinker
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am always here for you 🤝
deep_thinker
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u re the one who always supports me here
skylar
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and I will keep doing so..
deep_thinker
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You never ignored my posts, you have given me your own solutions to my problems, I owe you a lot,am bit sad that am not able to give you a complete solution to your problems.
skylar
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I'm glad that I'm able to help! no need to get sad tho... at least u hear me and I appreciate u for that ... my problems doesn't have a permanent sol. may be some distance I will be allowed to keep, if one day I reach where I want to be...
