well actually I have just passed my 10th and now I'm taking admission in 11th but I don't know how I will manage as I have social anxiety
importedbaboon8
how did you manage in 10th than, only books will change, your nost of the classmates will remain same if you are not changing you school.
pacifiedzebra6
actually I was home schooled due to some medical issues
pacifiedzebra6
and I also don't have any friends
peaky04
hey
peaky04
don't worry you'll be fine
importedbaboon8
in that case slowly make some friends,really life is beautiful if nice people are around us.
pacifiedzebra6
but what if there are no nice people
peaky04
just be confident and take the step , make new friends, make mistakes, cry, laugh, be happy You are just entering your 11 th std that means you are mostly 16-17 yrs old so enjoy your life
importedbaboon8
stress will come for few days when you go new place ,new people, but all will br normal in few weeks, and you will enjoy the company
peaky04
yes what if there are no nice people but how will you know that the ppl are nice or bad , you need to make friends right so you can come to an judgement
importedbaboon8
there are more than 30 students in class ,and I guarantee that world is not so cruel that all 30 are not nice, some of them must be very nice.
pacifiedzebra6
it's easier for you guys to say as you don't have social anxiety
peaky04
you'll get many experiences you just need to learn how to handle those experiences and move forward
peaky04
yes we don't have social anxiety but still you need to overcome that, so need to open up make friends
importedbaboon8
Ok, you are saying it is easy to say,but we all have some stress and we are too struggling, important is to face our fears,not hide them. so take small steps and everything will be fine
pacifiedzebra6
how do you make friends 🤔
peaky04
not a hard task just approach random ppl in clg and you'll automatically become good friends overtime
pacifiedzebra6
what if they don't like me
importedbaboon8
friends are not made,they automatically connected as per our vibes, you will sit with someone, share your feeling and you will get friends
peaky04
why are you thinking in a negative way
peaky04
what if they like you ?
peaky04
have you thought in this pov ?
pacifiedzebra6
know I haven't
peaky04
so think in a positive way
pacifiedzebra6
I don't know how to do that as I'm an overthinker
peaky04
if you can think in a negative way , so you obviously can think in a positive way , so force yourself to think in a optimistic approach
peaky04
everybody's an overthinker
pacifiedzebra6
ya but I'm an negative overthinker I'm always consider the worst possible scenario
pacifiedzebra6
but thanks for your help
peaky04
from now onwards consider best possible scenario and see how your pov changes
peaky04
yeah , always grateful to help 😊 all the best for your beautiful journey 👍
pacifiedzebra6
I will try thinking in a more positive manner it won't be as easy as you say but I'll try
peaky04
yes it won't be easy , but it is possible and you can implement it
