why does a best friend need attention by avoiding?
lordshuk
a best friend will probably say on face.Like why are you ignoring me and all
aloofshads6
because I was a bit hostile in the past and my best friend is often irritated when I don't tell him my stories and lately he's not been giving me loads of time so maybe he was hurt by my actions and trying to hurt me back. because he's either not interested in me anymore or he's doing that on purpose.
lordshuk
Or both of them may be! So have you ever asked like why you behaving in such way?
aloofshads6
yep a few times and he always says that he doesn't do that and that i don't speak a lot (and he's right,I dont). I got onto a matter a few days ago and he didn't stand for me and he later told me that he would've jumped right in if in my place there were 2 other (better frnds) of his. he has told this to them as well "it was X (consider my name to be X ) so did let it go, if it were you guys id have jumped right in".
aloofshads6
but you just can't ignore someone if they aren't a chatterbox.
lordshuk
yes, and flip the coins.You can't get yourself hurt everytime just because they used to be friends! it's disrespect you know! I'm not talk about ego! you understand what I'm saying
lordshuk
I don't know how you define friendship! yes it's an act of love too! i get it , you love them selflessly, but no point on holding somebody on while they in stead trying to lose the bond! you will be friends! but if the bond gets lossened na! it will feel worse
aloofshads6
yep you're absolutely right. that not jumping right in to help me stuff really hurt me. I felt betrayed. but he gives me mixed feelings like he calls me almost everyday and shares all his stories with me but when we meet in clg in friend circle, he does nothing that makes me aware that I hold a special place.
