I ruined my life. All my life choices are bad. I completely fucked up this time by marrying the wrong person. I have been unemployed for the last 7 months. I am broke AF. I feel so stuck. I can't breathe. I want to go back to my parents but I can't. Nothing is okay. Husband's family is bankrupt. Nothing is worse than money problems. My parents never put me in that position to feel so unsafe all the time. Financial problems is going to kill me soon. I am about to give up. I see everyone enjoying and living their best life and here I am crying and having panic attacks everyday. I don't know how long I can go on like this. its been 7 months. I can't live this life. I have nowhere to go. I can't see myself ruin my life.

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I ruined my life. All my life choices are bad. I completely fucked up this time by marrying the wrong person. I have been unemployed for the last 7 months. I am broke AF. I feel so stuck. I can't breathe. I want to go back to my parents but I can't. Nothing is okay. Husband's family is bankrupt. Nothing is worse than money problems. My parents never put me in that position to feel so unsafe all the time. Financial problems is going to kill me soon. I am about to give up. I see everyone enjoying and living their best life and here I am crying and having panic attacks everyday. I don't know how long I can go on like this. its been 7 months. I can't live this life. I have nowhere to go. I can't see myself ruin my life.

empathicWasp5 · Answer

Was it an arranged marriage or a love marriage?

Sr_raheja · Answer

life = problems.people around you will be in problems .its just that they don't show. Every body has their own role to play in life

empathicWasp5 · Answer

If you are into the person who you have married then I think you can come up with some idea to work along and earn something. It's easy to suggest, but it will take a lot of courage. There are so many part-time jobs available online, go for t you will earn at least something to fill your stomach, you can think of other ideas along with your husband, I guess.

guiltypear3 · Answer

love marriage but i had no idea financial situation was so bad. they didn't disclose everything. I have sold all my jewellery to pay rent. All my savings are gone. I feel so helpless. I have nothing. I am scared. I don't know what to do. I am stuck. Will it get better? I think I will die of constantly feeling unsafe.

androidgamer · Answer

hey buddy I'm in the same situation as u. I can help you...

jain88 · Answer

you need to take help of Dr and counsellor therapist

jain88 · Answer

change the location currently shift to your parents house for 1 month and think with the new perspective

guiltypear3 · Answer

I cannot let my parents know about what's going on. They have done enough for me. I don't want to be a burden to them anymore. I can't keep going back to them for help. It breaks my heart. I have tried meditation and staying positive but it doesn't work. my mental health is worsening everyday and I don't think I can get through this. It's too much pressure for me to handle. I keep having panic attacks and feeling numb. I feel so lost. alone. helpless. I have lost a lot of weight. I can't eat. I can't sleep. Nobody can help me. I know that. I can get through this

androidgamer · Answer

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empathicWasp5 · Answer

Do you still love that person? Does he treat you right? if yes then it's worth staying and solving the problem hand in hand else it's better if you leave the relationship.

brainylollies9 · Answer

how is your husband's behaviour towards you??

help me please

how do I change for the better?

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