Hi all, My wife recently delivered a baby and as per blood reports it is not belongs to mine (We both are o+ve and baby is B+ve, which is not possible as per my knowledge). We are married for 2 years and we were not in a good relationship from beginning. She is in close relationship with a man whom she calls brother, which I suspect of being father of newborn baby. She use to sleep with me only once/twice a month just for the sake of baby. >> Literally she slaughtered me and my family mercilessly. How I can proceed now? I dont want to pay her monthly in the name of alimony. Our law system is always towards girls and I dont know whether it will allow DNA test. I need help from lawyers and doctors. I feel cheated, have anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts. I am mentally weak guy, cant handle these kinds of things. I was always honest, never cheated to anybody in my life. Please help!!!!

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artisticchowder9

11 Answers
johndoe1998
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Stay strong brother... I'm not good with legal stuff but please don't let a cheater be responsible for your suicide. Divorce her asap, forget the alimony and stuff. That part comes later. Work on yourself, try consulting a real mental health specialist and believe me one day you'll be happy you didn't end your life... someone will definitely come along and make you fell that your decision was the correct one
satesh
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though u r right but sometime because of some gentic animoli, that can happen. so first confirm and then decide what to do.
supressedgal
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same im not gud with legal stuffs but always choose the right path.
artisticchowder9
If she is good with me and leading life with me, I am ready to accept her. But she is still wants to keep me away. Mentally tortures me and keeps me away. I still did not inform her that "I have doubt about her baby" because still I want to retain our relationship but she is not. I can see clearly that the "other guy" brainwashed her using as her "keep" for his sexual needs and her wealth (She is kind of rich) One or the other day he will through her to the road/Make her a prostitute which she will realize. But that will be too late and I cant wait that to happen. I have to lead my life
artisticchowder9
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@satesh https://www.thetech.org/ask-a-geneticist/ask181 Genetic mutation is very rare case. I think I have to rule out this option because her behavior around me is suspicious
artisticchowder9
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@supressedgal Thank You. I am trying my best to retain this relationship
artisticchowder9
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@johndoe1998 Thank You. I will not suicide because I am not too much attached to her. She never allowed herself to grow attachment and always kept distance from me. The thing i lost most is years from my life. Building married life again is not easy
artisticchowder9
Do I need to opt for DNA test and fight in court? or Do I speak with her and make her agree to mutual divorce? (Baby will be in my name only) ??
Heretofeelbetter
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You know, If you opt for DNA test, and baby is yours, even then she will leave you for doubting so much extreme. And if you choose to stay with her without doing a test, then you will all life have doubt in mind which will fk you up.
Heretofeelbetter
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Pls consult an experienced councellor, doctor and lawyer before it's too late.
artisticchowder9
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@Heretofeelbetter Thank you

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troubledtuna7

hlo anyone give my question reply.kya maa ki bduaa lgati hai apne daughter ko

angelkitty4

Frustrating

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help me please