i want that he will share his problem as he listen others problem?
I talked about him... and tell him to make a promise... but he said no
some people doesn't like to share like that openly
but i can't see him to handle all those things alone
Ha. Usually they believe relying on someone else is something only a weak person would do.
so now I feel like I didn't want to tell him all those things... I just want to do a favor for him... but all these things hurt me now like why I said that, I hurt him or like I have a guilty now... after that I cried alot
I didn't talk him after all these things... because everytime I hurt him and now... I am lost... I don't want to ruin my friendship... I don't know what to do now?
It's okay to feel like you want to be there for him, specially for someone who listened to your troubles. It was your choice to open up to him. And same way it is his choice whether he wants to open up to u, maybe someday when he feels comfortable to tell you, he will tell. Forcing him to tell you won't end up good.
I know it... but I can't see him in problem... I ruined everything... from past three day... I feel like I did a mistake... how can I say sorry to him... I don't know... I don't want to ruin that friendship.
It's okay. Don't think too much. Just normally tell him, "Im sorry for forcing you yo open up, if you ever feel like you need someone to open up to, I'll be there." That is all. Don't run away from him. If he's avoiding you try to give him time and take it slow.
will he stop talking to me? I have a fear... I don't want to spoile everything.
make a good friend is very important
my intention was not to hurt him... I just want that he share his problem as I share my problems with him.
Hmm if he's your true friend he won't stop. And if you keep it with yourself without telling him, you would just continue blaming yourself as well as ruin any chance of your friendship
how can I tell him... when I think about all those think that I started crying alot... I don't want to cry in front of him.
It's okay if you cry whole telling that. We're all humans with emotions, and crying is a way to express oneself just like laughing, shouting, and all.
everything will be fine?
Hmm. Just be open and tell him sorry. Rest we'll see.