I feel like I'm being blamed for every family issues. my parents are constantly reminding and comparing to my cousins that I need to have a better attitude. the point is that my parents yell at each other every single day and expect us to be a very nicely behaved child but they are literally being toxic and are bad influence to their kids, or idk if I'm wrong in this to pick up their attitude. they even told me nobody's gonna love me (as I have the resting b***h face) Im just being queit but they are always like why you mad why you act like that in front of people and when I finally talk they said I'm being annoying. hah idk anymore

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I feel like I'm being  blamed for every family issues. my parents are constantly reminding and comparing to my cousins that I need to have a better attitude. the point is that my parents yell at each other every single day and expect us to be a very nicely behaved child but they are literally being toxic and are bad influence to their kids, or idk if  I'm wrong in this to pick up their attitude. they even told me nobody's gonna love me (as I have the resting b***h face) Im just being queit but they are always like why you mad why you act like that in front of people and when I finally talk they said I'm being annoying. hah idk anymore

affectedporpoise9 · Answer

listen,for once consider your parents as just humans who can commit mistakes as they are no god ,they are obviously at fault here and trust me i've been going through the same shit for a v long time so i completely understand but ..just hang in there ! sit with your parents and tell them that this behavious of theirs is hurting you ,if they understand its good but if they dont ,dont let their behaviour ruin your personal growth and mental health.They've reached a certain age and now its difficult to change their perspective towards certain things but you can change your reactions towards their attitude ! break the generational curses and do not let it ruin your inner child and innocense

I am not fit for anyone

Unloving

I really want to change

help me please