don't do it

though i am not in the position to advice you but i would just say that maybe the guy and his family both will be good , maybe he's supportive but for you your career should be your first priority. and about your physical change, I am also dating a guy online we had met like 6-7 times but somewhere i think that due to i have gained weight he would not love me like how he used to bcz he had told me quite a times that i should lose some weight bcz i looked beautiful earlier.... but for me i think if the person loved you once he/she shouldn't lose their feelings just on the base of other person's physical changes. although that's my concern... leave it but i want to know what's that guy's age?

He is 3.5 years elder to me. He is supportive and asks me to get married and do whatever i want to. His mother also seem supportive and loving from whatever he discussed with me about her. About physical appearance, i did discuss with him my insecurity but he says we have moved from that phase, atleast he has. So appearances don't matter now. Everything about him is perfect and gentleman like but then i am not sure will this continue even when we met . I do want to marry but then i am not sure if its the right time when i am not independent. Also, i don't think his mother will wait anymore because she has cancer. He is 28 and i am 24.

ohk....i just want to say do u feel like u want to marry him? do you feel like u can handle both your family and career responsibility simultaneously? if yes then go ahead but before that i will advice you to meet the guy personally... visit his mom with any one of your family members and if possible discuss it with your family as well

if looked for the guy's pov... he's 28, have a gf from past 3 yrs, have a good job,mother have cancer... ofc he would try to marry that the girl he loves in his mother's presence

but before thinking about others just think about yourself... meet the guy and his family, spend some time with them and then decide... if everything is good then go ahead.... good luck

How can i ask him to wait more when his mother is suffering from cancer and all she wants is to see her son being married? I don't think i can ask him to wait. Either i will have to say yes for marriage or i might just lose him

as i just told u its your call to make... u have to take ur decision... have u met him offline? try to meet his family first and talk to them... u have been in live with him for past 3 yrs and i dont think a person can fake his true personality for such a long time, so if he said that he will support you in your career then go ahead girl... he's is your love but for him his mother's wish is also important... who wants to see his beloved son's marriage

in my opinion u can ask him for a week's time so that u can decide and meet him in personal as well.... i know marriage is something u can't decide on a week's time period but still be positive and go ahead..... I'm sure whatever decision you will take u won't regret it

but if u don't want to gwt married then pls don't do it... don't do it if u aren't sure

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The guy directly wants to talk to parents because he is in mumbai, i am in delhi. He can't just come and go again and again. He has job responsibilities and needs to take care of his mother too.