brother/sis i was never in a haram relationship. But from my experience men mostly attracted towards the beauty at 1st, later it may be for heart or some activity or character. Men's are designed to get attracted through looks that's why you will see lots of pic/ads with glorifying women's beauty. How to distinguish between men and boy? Boy will lose patience, get attachment or attracted to many persons at one time, believe in own short term fulfilment lacks discipline and patience. I hope my words will help you.

1.totally depends upon on that guy's thought process and past experience or his nature 2.when they understand you then vice versa u'll also try the same ultimately u'll get to know

how do you know if a men is genuinely in love with you ? ( you both aren't friends )

it's very difficult. feelings can come and go. commitment is most precious.

ya but what if they aren't in a relation then as stranger?

communication you have to establish for love. infatuation you are taking about. whats your age btw?

what goes through a men's mind when they fall in love with someone?

no i wasn't talking about infatuation but geniune and true love

you are in infatuation state mam. Love is happen because of character, words and actions. what you are taking is you like someone. you need to establish communication see his behaviour with you and with others. if you will be special for him. you will know that surely.

actually no not really. i kinda of suppress my feelings for him and that guy did treated me like crap

i just wanted to know in general way

could you answer that what goes through a men's mind while falling in love ?

You need to move on. you should respect your existence. you are not crap. you deserve better treatment. if anyone treat you crap ( it doesn't include stopping you from drinking or adultery) crap i mean beating, abusing, strangling. you should move on. there is lots of better guys out there who respect the existence of woman. May allah help you with this difficult journey.

I will try to explain that in scientific way. when a man loves he will never let you feel alone, he will be curious to know what you are doing, bringing surprise, helping you in works , talks about career and future. if they want your body they will try to please you not help you to grow.

yup tho. thank you for saying so . i do know my own self respect so i wish i will move on from him one day as i deserve more than anything else. as there are better people out there hope so i find one . him and his friends did something horrendous things so

he said once to his friends and i overhead him saying he was in love with me but if he would have been in love with me he and his friends wouldn't have done something shitty so .

Never mind. You need motivation to move on. whenever you need help or motivation you can contact me. don't let yourself down and never drop your crown queen.

aww . i fucking vex him and tbh i m trying my best to move on as it's difficult to do so . just want him out of my head and heart once for all . my heart wanted because i have feelings for him and my head didn't because he's a piece of shit . so knew my own self worth as i am Queen so 🤷

that's sweet dude ☺️

how you overheard ? was that intentional? Love from word and love from action is two different things mam. You need to understand the difference. I will pray that all your difficulty will end soon and you will find your pair soon. who will love you unconditionally and treat you like queen.

dude ended up saying the whole class he had feelings for me plus he did said something like he was in love with me for 4 months

same tution

i hope the day arises soon . i want to fall in love with a guy where our love suits us both

plus he treats me like a queen and i treat him like a king plus we should work as a team

yup he's action didn't made me believe that he was in love with me so

saying whole class. that was intentional. I believe you are not the only one in his life. your need to understand mam. those who love they don't scream that they love you. they love silently and even sacrifice love for their partners happiness. he wanted you to think about you that's why he did and he was indeed successful. I am sorry to say. you need to think what i am saying. Again saying you are Queen (your innocence, that's is most beautiful thing God has gifted). Don't let this human use that as curse and you lose innocense.

the thing is his friends asked him who he loves or like

i actually kind of showed him his place

and i overhead it

I will address you as a "Queen". psychologist say we believe the character what people say us. Queen never wait for anyone. things will happen at most unpredictable time and with most strange place and position. Queen you need a companion not a lover who loves you through up and down and grow with you.

how you showed him his place?

it's a bit private

ah okay. No worries. you get your answer you were seeking queen?

i didn't waited for him because i knew my own self worth

ya thanks

Take care.

if you need anything do hit me up

how to hit you up?

i would be damned to have a a friend

insta?

sure

ya sure can understand

hope you find someone who treats you like a king and cherish you

I am not rushing. you know. Because i Don't want to be treated as a king. King rules. I just believe in companionship who hold hands forever.

aww

that's cute

hope you find someone for yourself

women deserve to be treated as a queen i am saying this because i know women's have different prescriptive in relationship than a man. Women cherish every small moment and remember all special things but men just need a hand who hold him in difficulties and success.

I am happy single because it's difficult to find a person with same thinking. so just waiting for right person. 🥺

there might be men who might do the same as women though

you will definitely find so trust me

Thanks for your kind words. And remember never drop your crown. Take care. connect me if you are low or mind is messing with your heart. take care

hope you take care of yourself too

I am ending conversation here mam. With lots of love and respect to you. You are best. take care always.

you are the best too . do take care of yourself