Give him some space

He probably needs it

And yeah, keep reaching out

I'd say just let him know you are there for him and give him some space.

it will be better for you to clarify your thoughts with him. I know it must a suffering for you too and you should pull the bandage and ask him what he wants. And then take action accordingly

Space?....it has been 4 freaking months...how much understanding i have to be ? How much space does he need now even after 4 months 7 days??? @ thecalmestopener

My msgs are being delivered to him but neither he see them nor he reply anything...i don't even know what i am suppose to do with him now....i understand he is having a hardtime...i am not even that demanding...we are in long distance relations....few msgs a day and to know if he is fine....thats all i want to know....how can he leave me behind if life gets hard? I don't want to be with him just in his good times but also in bad times

if you are in contact with any person near him and they know about you guys ...ask them

No...we don't have common friends

if not common...someone anyone near him. You just need to ask them if he is ok, right? They can do that much

I am in pain now....i want to be understanding but it hurts...crying at the memory of him...it all hurts

We dont have any common friend or people....if he chooses to block me one day...i will have no access to him

he's just pushing you away... it's the hard truth, girl