it can be like a anxiety to reach there and how to maintain that success tho
humorousMagpie7
hardwork is scary
nauseatedperson
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yes, I think there is. I don't know the medical term for it but I have seen many people go through that. There can be many things involved like social attention, pressure to maintain and all. so I believe there is a phobia of success
Riya555
yes I get overwhelmed why I see many people coming around congratulating me, looking so excited and complimenting me
Riya555
it makes me want to not do my best to avoid all these situations
Riya555
I feel bad how they come around only when something amazing is achieved. but all I wanna do is do my stuffs
Riya555
and not that I care but I feel something unnatural when they wait like something more amazing is going to happen.... that's another problem of how more pressuring it feels in exterior ways when u yourself have not made any higher goals yourself
nauseatedperson
it's completely fine Riya. we understand. Try to tell them what you are feeling about this. If they are good people they will understand. Yeah some people will talk and all but its about you this moment. Reach out to people. People need people. And many of them are good.
Riya555
also, now that it has happened quiet some time..... it feels sad when nobody actually cares how u do it until u have done it... also, if u fail now.... nobody will come around... makes me see things as success and failure rather than previously looking at it as the things I love to do for others... example: if I were a designer, I used to design for beauty so that people feel and look beautiful.... and now it's like, is it in trend so that I can market it well, like that
nauseatedperson
Do it on your own pace. I know it's easier said than done but this is one of the good ways you can be better.
Riya555
how can I tell public.
Riya555
if I do it on my own pace...I look like a delayed success person......
nauseatedperson
So what? you succeeded that's what matter. You are taking other people's opinion too seriously. Try to say a loud duck you as many times you like. wishing it makes you feel better
Riya555
and what about the overwhelming response from public? how to take it normally
nauseatedperson
actually I am dealing with that myself so I cannot help you there at this moment. although I do thing where I am imagine it being all over and me sitting in my bed at home with the anxiety and all. It helps.
