well I hate my confidence...well I don't hate it when it helps me to perform my work and items well but, I hate it as people think that no matter what happens I will still be confident and they joke about me and all ... I tried to change but even if I fo less the way I talk the way I walk its still too overconfident.....i want to be a little normal so people wont joke about me and not compare me with other lovely girls

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dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

so people think you are always confident and they fun of you for it ?

ladyblueweather · Answer

yes well im in med college and there are 3 other people with dame name as me they would always refer me as confident esther as if making jokes

ladyblueweather · Answer

i know they know but i laugh it out but it still hurts indide and i guess thats why no man every see me as a datable women

gleefulmeerkat7 · Answer

is it really your confidence or positive approach towards things?

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

Man I can't believe  there are people who bully you for being confident

ladyblueweather · Answer

both i guess ....im good in my study so they think high of that but im overconfident

ladyblueweather · Answer

i dont hate them at all but sometimes i feel like im a big clone

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

I was a confident kid from my childhood I would always speak my mind and sometimes people used to think I was too 'LOUD' and avoid me I can understand where you are coming from

ladyblueweather · Answer

clown

ladyblueweather · Answer

i dont know how to change can u tell me how

gleefulmeerkat7 · Answer

is your confidence affecting you or anyone in your circle?

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

Do you always Overestimate yourself?

ladyblueweather · Answer

how to change ?????

ladyblueweather · Answer

tell me some way

ladyblueweather · Answer

cause if i dont start acting now i feel like i will compare myself with others more and more and feel i dont fit on any place i go

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

See the thing is you have to analyze first Is it you or is it them .. like are you just confident but people around you have low self esteem so you feel guilty for it or If you always feel overconfident then I would suggest try to be  calculative of your mistakes Like acknowledging mistakes would maybe make you realize your flaws and you would feel down to earth

help me please

how do I change for the better?

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