I'm good but there's many questions are there in my head
arshi1
you can ask , I will try to help you
affectedcardinal3
open up buddy, we are here to help u
guiltystork0
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ok I'm a girl myself ok so I'm not saying anything wrong or judging any girl but does there are girls who like needs boys you know what you can say is support and side all time
guiltystork0
and even those boys are all so happy to do that
affectedcardinal3
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yess there are few girls who needs constant care and support frm boys and other girls who are independent, it is our choice to be who we are
guiltystork0
you know i want to tell you one story
Vickey
yeah it depend on girls, they need any supports or not
guiltystork0
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there is one girl in my office and she is nee there
guiltystork0
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so in starting she and one of my other colleague were close in the starting like she said many things to him to do and he'll do everything but suddenly they stop talking i don't know why
guiltystork0
and now there one of my other colleague is like taking her side and it's like his baby ing her
guiltystork0
1
it's like all the attention is on her only
Vickey
ok, it's a nature of that girl, to attract with a boy, it's a normal things
guiltystork0
1
but with every boy ok you can say i can be dependent on this person because I trust him like a friend or brother or any other way right but like with everyone know what i observed is that she needs all the attention
Vickey
See this is her habit so ignore it and focus on your work because she is more interested in boys
guiltystork0
i feel like it's affecting my relationship with the person I thought who is like my brother or friend like he used be nice to me but suddenly she became his priority and that affecting me and hurting me
Vickey
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If someone considers you as a sister, then his and your relationship will never get worse, no matter who else comes, so don't take too much tension about it.
sheepishdotterel9
hii
affectedcardinal3
it's that girl's nature to act vulnerable infront of boys , so they think she needs help and give her that car and support, may be ur friend is also doing the same
affectedcardinal3
I know it hurts to see your person whether it is ur frnd or brother being close to other girl , but remember she is like a passing cloud
guiltystork0
yeah and you know what they are married ðŸ¤
affectedcardinal3
if they are married then what is bothering you?
guiltystork0
what is bothering me is they are not treating me well as they used to be if they want to be close with her well and good but atleast don't behave bad with others with whom you used to be good like treat everyone equally
