A controlling boyfriend

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I've dated my girlfriend for just 6 months and she's already on the verge of breaking up. I'm what she would call a "controlling boyfriend". It's true that I can be possessive but I thing she's just using this as an excuse to leave me. I don't particularly when she talks to a bunch of guys but then I've never forced her to not do it. I asked her to start working out with me because I really enjoy fitness and she said that I bodyshamed her. I really do love her but at time I feel guilty about things that I know are not even true. I feel like a terrible person.

wingedPepper3

2 Answers
M_KSA
Hey, Everybody sees things from their own perspective. What feels right to you might not feel the same to her. What I think is wrong here is the communication gap. She doesn't understand why you do things and I'm expecting it's the same for you. So try to fix this if you want to stay together. You're not a terrible person just because you have relationship problems.
binned32
If she needs more space, then give it to her. Sometimes people need some distance and freedom to come back and appreciate you. There seems to be quite a mismatch of interests here so evaluate if this really is the right relationship for you. If the first 6 months have been this way then the possibilities are close to none that either of you are going to change suddenly and be on the same page. Hope everything works out for you.

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