feels like everybody's drifting away from me

Question

guiltystork0 · Answer

why you feel this way

Joel · Answer

@guiltystork0 my best friend is ignoring me

farshy756 · Answer

from how she's been ignoring you?

guiltystork0 · Answer

did you guys fight?

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 like a week.. I tried to talk to her but she keeps ignoring me

Joel · Answer

@guiltystork0 no we didn't fight.. I don't know why she's ignoring me

farshy756 · Answer

can you tell what happened before she started ignoring you? like what happened during your last meet with her?

guiltystork0 · Answer

mybe your friend is upset with you try to talk to your friend

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 she asked me if I had feelings for her and I said no.. actually I lied

farshy756 · Answer

does anyone else know that you have feelings for your friend?

guiltystork0 · Answer

that's why she is ignoring you

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 nobody else knows but she said someone said that me and her would look great together if we dated

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 from that day on she's been ignoring me

Joel · Answer

@guiltystork you think she's ignoring me because I said no?

farshy756 · Answer

you should talk to her about this, maybe she has feelings for you and got hurt because your said no.

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 but she has a boyfriend.. I'm really afraid to make a move

guiltystork0 · Answer

yes because maybe she likes you and you said no to her and she don't want to hurt her self maybe

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 but she looks happy

guiltystork0 · Answer

ohh she has a boyfriend .is she happy with her boyfriend?

guiltystork0 · Answer

just ask her directly

farshy756 · Answer

their is another possibility with the information you gave me right now, maybe somehow her boyfriend got to know about this or it is affecting her relationship with him, so she thought to ignore you to save her relationship.

guiltystork0 · Answer

what if she is just pretending

farshy756 · Answer

from how long your friend is in this relationship?

Joel · Answer

@guiltystrok0 yea she looks happy with her boyfriend

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 3months

Joel · Answer

and it killed me at first when I got know about this and she literally asked me if I'm uncomfortable about her dating him and I said nooo why would I be uncomfortable

farshy756 · Answer

do you know the guy?

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 yea I do but I don't talk to him that much

farshy756 · Answer

do you think your friend sort of liked you before getting into this relationship?

guiltystork0 · Answer

you were jealous of him?

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 I really don't know

Joel · Answer

@guiltystork0 yea obviously

guiltystork0 · Answer

you have an answers with in you and yet you are feeling this way

farshy756 · Answer

I think you should talk to your friend about why she is ignoring you and I think this has something to do with her relationship.

farshy756 · Answer

what do you mean @guitystrok0?

Joel · Answer

@guiltystrok0 yea i don't get you either

guiltystork0 · Answer

like he likes her right? she asked him maybe because she likes him too. if he'll just say straight forward that he likes her . even though she is in a relationship things can be different to.

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 I tried to ask her everyday 'did I do something wrong' 'why you ignoring me' 'why you aren't talking to me'

farshy756 · Answer

and she ignore you again.

farshy756 · Answer

right?

Joel · Answer

@guiltystork0 I'm kinda scared of rejection too

guiltystork0 · Answer

she asked him frist to know his side his feelings.i hope now you understand

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 yea she ignored me

farshy756 · Answer

do you have any friend whom you both can trust?

Joel · Answer

@guiltystrok0 it's my fault isn't it?😢 I'm sorry I'm really confused I don't know what to do

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 yea I do and she's the only one who knows

guiltystork0 · Answer

joel every body scared from rejection but if she can ask you the why can't you say it atleast she'll get to know about your feelings

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 she told me that she asked her if I had a crush on her

Joel · Answer

she also said no

guiltystork0 · Answer

confused by what?

farshy756 · Answer

ask your friend to talk to her about why she is not talking to you, don't say ignoring.

Joel · Answer

@guiltystrok0 I've liked her for 4 years and not once I've tried to make a move. I never make a move and I cry about it. how more stupid can I be

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 maybe I should give her some space? idkkk

guiltystork0 · Answer

that's exactly I'm saying just say it or you'll regret it later or maybe you already did isn't it?

guiltystork0 · Answer

she's asking your friend also that mean she has something for you

Joel · Answer

@guiltystrok0 yea I regret not admitting my feelings

guiltystork0 · Answer

then don't waste time my friend just say it and rest just leave on god .

Joel · Answer

@guiltystrok0 you really think so?😭 she asked her this before she started dating this guy

guiltystork0 · Answer

you'll not get rejected trust me

Joel · Answer

@guiltystrok0 @farshy756 thanks you guys..😭❤️ I really appreciate it

guiltystork0 · Answer

ya because you and your friend says no ? that you don't have a feelings for her and maybe she thinks that it's just one side from her side and she moved on.

guiltystork0 · Answer

😊 don't say thank you just confront you feelings

farshy756 · Answer

you don't have to thank me, wish you all the best, hope you get back with her.

Joel · Answer

@farshy756 @guiltystork0 guess who's talking to me properly 😌

farshy756 · Answer

who?

farshy756 · Answer

you friend?

please help me🙏

I don't know what to do anymore