I'm stressed because of my career and my love affair can anyone help me to out from this? ...

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bhuuu · Answer

yes. I'm facing the same problems

bhuuu · Answer

maybe i can help you to come out from that

dudy · Answer

how can we ovecome ?

dudy · Answer

?

bhuuu · Answer

can you tell me why are you stressed because of you love affair?

bhuuu · Answer

if you're facing problem in your career then be relax&calm don't overstressed yourself just figure it out how you wanna make it? focus on your study .

dudy · Answer

I'm in a relationship and I truly love him ,we started our relationship through internet and we are lived in same town so we became so close to each other and made lots of memories but during that time I'm connected with lots of my friends and I said to one of my frend that he is only a friend with benefit so my boy frend caught that msg so he won't trust me again

dudy · Answer

yeah, actually I'm planning for taking masters from UK but due to some financial issues I can't achieve my goals

bhuuu · Answer

don't worry, everything will be fine just try to explain him.

bhuuu · Answer

try to win his trust again

dudy · Answer

yeah, I explained him it's been 6months there is nothing but now he wants breakup

dudy · Answer

how can I win his trust again?

dudy · Answer

he always tell me that he loved me so much but now he can't love that much

bhuuu · Answer

i was also in relationship but i didn't know about his past love life but one day he told me that he is using me to forget someone and he love someone else. And still he likes to talk with me but i don't talk to him anymore i feel sad whenever i talk to him he make realised i can't be loved . what can i do now??

dudy · Answer

I think better to avoid him

bhuuu · Answer

tell it was a joke nothing like that how thinking give some proof

bhuuu · Answer

show your affection you love him you can make him happiest person

bhuuu · Answer

and if nothing goes right then trust on universe.

bhuuu · Answer

yeah actually I'm doin that

bhuuu · Answer

but still he is my first love

dudy · Answer

In my case he always dig my past and he won't allow me to get in touch with my any friends even my iinstagram was also using by him

bhuuu · Answer

its hard for me to forget him. it makes me depressed I'm not the same anymore as i was.

bhuuu · Answer

i think you don't have to share your Instagram password with him. he don't trust you from the starting if he, he will didn't do that things you told we need to trust whom we love

dudy · Answer

if he's trying to continue with you then do it because  u can make him a new Pearson

dudy · Answer

because I trusted him

dudy · Answer

now l also have the same feeling can't forget him

bhuuu · Answer

now he just want to talk with me as a friend he clearly told me that. 😥

dudy · Answer

but he wants breakup

dudy · Answer

oh do you have friends?

bhuuu · Answer

he still love someone else but likes to talk with me i can't understand him

bhuuu · Answer

not really closed i lost my bestfriends

bhuuu · Answer

and that makes me sad too.

dudy · Answer

same situation here

bhuuu · Answer

now I'm just trying to live alone. but someday i feel fainted because of my past

bhuuu · Answer

would you like to be my friend?

dudy · Answer

I also don't have any friends I lost everything and became a fool by believing him

dudy · Answer

yeah sure

bhuuu · Answer

okay😀👻

bhuuu · Answer

how are you feeling now?

dudy · Answer

I'm not OK

dudy · Answer

feeling alone

dudy · Answer

by hunting with his memories

bhuuu · Answer

don't be sad yaar

bhuuu · Answer

try not to focus on that do something it will help you to distracted from his memories

dudy · Answer

the main thing is that I always felt sad and cried alot because of him

dudy · Answer

what should I do

dudy · Answer

how can I forget him

bhuuu · Answer

i have a suggestion for you i also do something whenever i feel like this try to write everything whatever your feeling whatever hunting you, try to find reason to move on live for yourself. don't lose yourself.

bhuuu · Answer

we can't forget someone but we can try to not think about them

dudy · Answer

OK

bhuuu · Answer

but you can share anything if you want to share I'll try to help you

dudy · Answer

yea sure thank you

bhuuu · Answer

belive me try to focus on your growth and focus on your career it is more important for you it'll take more time but you'll be fine. i did the same now i feel much better

amusedtuna7 · Answer

dont keep it together ... concentrate on 1 thing at a time ....I think money and position is important for your identity.... relationship if it's true can also survive later on if you talk to your partner for some time

bhuuu · Answer

@amusedtuna yeahh that's true now I'm realising it.

dudy · Answer

yeah

live changes according to time

stressed as shit

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