can you tell me why are you stressed because of you love affair?
bhuuu
if you're facing problem in your career then be relax&calm don't overstressed yourself just figure it out how you wanna make it? focus on your study .
dudy
I'm in a relationship and I truly love him ,we started our relationship through internet and we are lived in same town so we became so close to each other and made lots of memories but during that time I'm connected with lots of my friends and I said to one of my frend that he is only a friend with benefit so my boy frend caught that msg so he won't trust me again
dudy
yeah, actually I'm planning for taking masters from UK but due to some financial issues I can't achieve my goals
bhuuu
don't worry, everything will be fine just try to explain him.
bhuuu
try to win his trust again
dudy
yeah, I explained him it's been 6months there is nothing but now he wants breakup
dudy
how can I win his trust again?
dudy
he always tell me that he loved me so much but now he can't love that much
bhuuu
i was also in relationship but i didn't know about his past love life but one day he told me that he is using me to forget someone and he love someone else. And still he likes to talk with me but i don't talk to him anymore i feel sad whenever i talk to him he make realised i can't be loved . what can i do now??
dudy
I think better to avoid him
bhuuu
tell it was a joke nothing like that how thinking give some proof
bhuuu
show your affection you love him you can make him happiest person
bhuuu
and if nothing goes right then trust on universe.
bhuuu
yeah actually I'm doin that
bhuuu
but still he is my first love
dudy
In my case he always dig my past and he won't allow me to get in touch with my any friends even my iinstagram was also using by him
bhuuu
its hard for me to forget him. it makes me depressed I'm not the same anymore as i was.
bhuuu
i think you don't have to share your Instagram password with him. he don't trust you from the starting if he, he will didn't do that things you told we need to trust whom we love
dudy
if he's trying to continue with you then do it because u can make him a new Pearson
dudy
because I trusted him
dudy
now l also have the same feeling can't forget him
bhuuu
now he just want to talk with me as a friend he clearly told me that. 😥
dudy
but he wants breakup
dudy
oh do you have friends?
bhuuu
he still love someone else but likes to talk with me i can't understand him
bhuuu
not really closed i lost my bestfriends
bhuuu
and that makes me sad too.
dudy
same situation here
bhuuu
now I'm just trying to live alone. but someday i feel fainted because of my past
bhuuu
would you like to be my friend?
dudy
I also don't have any friends I lost everything and became a fool by believing him
dudy
yeah sure
bhuuu
okay😀👻
bhuuu
how are you feeling now?
dudy
I'm not OK
dudy
feeling alone
dudy
by hunting with his memories
bhuuu
don't be sad yaar
bhuuu
try not to focus on that do something it will help you to distracted from his memories
dudy
the main thing is that I always felt sad and cried alot because of him
dudy
what should I do
dudy
how can I forget him
bhuuu
i have a suggestion for you i also do something whenever i feel like this try to write everything whatever your feeling whatever hunting you, try to find reason to move on live for yourself. don't lose yourself.
bhuuu
we can't forget someone but we can try to not think about them
dudy
OK
bhuuu
but you can share anything if you want to share I'll try to help you
dudy
yea sure thank you
bhuuu
belive me try to focus on your growth and focus on your career it is more important for you it'll take more time but you'll be fine. i did the same now i feel much better
amusedtuna7
dont keep it together ... concentrate on 1 thing at a time ....I think money and position is important for your identity.... relationship if it's true can also survive later on if you talk to your partner for some time
bhuuu
@amusedtuna yeahh that's true now I'm realising it.