I am feeling low for last few days... I am a married woman for last 1 yr.. and it's not at all a happy married life, though it was a love marriage.. there have been lots of misunderstanding... we both have bad temper.. but my husband loose his cool so easily that he used to beat me up so badly.. recently this has been changed.. he don't use to beat up badly but he always disrespect me by kicking when we have any arguments.. I have lots of flaws, I know that.. I react too much sometimes.. but does that mean it's okay to physically abuse me? is it okay to call his own wife a prostitute with zero regrets? I can't break this marriage, I don't know why? he used to care me a lot once... but now we live in a separate room under same roof.. how can I move on?

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humorousMagpie7 · Answer

this is toxic

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

u have to end this anyhow

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

its not love its abuse

unhappysoul77 · Answer

he doesn't beat me up.. but before few days he kicked me when i was shouting out

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

find a safe place and get out of there

unhappysoul77 · Answer

I can't resist my emotions

unhappysoul77 · Answer

nobody loved me like him before.. he has two sides.. one which is disrespecting another is caring

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

its like u r stuck and trapped see emotions come and go

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

u have to make a choice

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

its not selfishness to want to be treated right

unhappysoul77 · Answer

how can I do that.. none of my relatives stay in this city... and I can't leave my job from here..

unhappysoul77 · Answer

he doesn't care at all

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

u dont need others , u can make a decision for your good and u already have a job u can earn u can do whatever u need to

unhappysoul77 · Answer

I don't have much good salary for living .. I get 16250 INR in hand per month.. I am also not that beautiful so that I can get a better start in my life..

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

u have to and dont think low about yourself u do have a good salary

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

u dont need such guy to spoil your life anymore

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

take a brave decision and leave it forever

unhappysoul77 · Answer

but how can I move on? I am married to him

unhappysoul77 · Answer

I want to know the ways so that I won't have any feelings for him

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

i know but u are not forcefully into this , u can move on if u want to , u qqve the right to do that

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

dont  spend much time there

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

distract your mind in good things

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

and see the good that can happen to u

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

i m worried he might harm u so i told u to be cautious and decide to move on

unhappysoul77 · Answer

he is not harming me physically..but verbally he abuses me a lot

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

if he threatens u , complain to the police , its a case

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

its the same

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

its not a marriage , its a trap

unhappysoul77 · Answer

I am a nyctophobic person and he use to switch off all lights and me me feel scared.. terrified... my heart started palpation

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

i told u its terrible

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

your life will be what u will choose

unhappysoul77 · Answer

I don't have much friends too with whom I can go for outing to make my day good

unhappysoul77 · Answer

I do have one colleague but she is such kind of person who always judge other people that I don't like at all ..

Allendehradun · Answer

I think you should tell him to behave properly because if you resist this behaviour after some time you will have kids then leaving the marriage will be a lot difficult plus the kids will suffer a lot . it's better to sort things out or just leave the marriage.

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

gossipers are not really the best people to talk with

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