Is it alright for an Indian girl to choose to not live with her in laws after marriage?

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skylar · Answer

it is , things will be easier if ur spouse shares similar views on this .

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Actually I got a match 2 years back where the guy said his parents will move in with us to the city post marriage and I objected, which resulted in termination of the match. Today my bua was taunting me saying girls these days are refusing tk stay with in laws even before marriage. it was an insinuation at me. She is usually bitter and nosy. It got me slightly worried. It was my personal choice, why is she bringing it up after 2 years

skylar · Answer

it's sort of sensitive topic in Indian culture...,

skylar · Answer

typically daughter-in-laws are expected to serve groom and his parents ..., and living separately is seen as against this expectation, that's why they react sourly.

importedbaboon8 · Answer

it's wrong to love seperate

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