it is , things will be easier if ur spouse shares similar views on this .
Actually I got a match 2 years back where the guy said his parents will move in with us to the city post marriage and I objected, which resulted in termination of the match. Today my bua was taunting me saying girls these days are refusing tk stay with in laws even before marriage. it was an insinuation at me. She is usually bitter and nosy. It got me slightly worried. It was my personal choice, why is she bringing it up after 2 years
it's sort of sensitive topic in Indian culture...,
typically daughter-in-laws are expected to serve groom and his parents ..., and living separately is seen as against this expectation, that's why they react sourly.